Love Bombs, then ghosts for a week?

[KatieNorCal]

I’ve been off and on seeing a man for about 6 months. I’m the dummy who lets him come over for sex without actually taking me out. We met and since hooking up, his messages quickly became “you’re so sexy”, “I’m going to make you mine”, “I love you”. Then nothing for about a week each time. Please help!

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, those are some major red flags! This dude is messing with your head, and it sounds like he's just using you for sex without any real commitment. A few things:

- The love bombing is a manipulation tactic to reel you in, then he bails for a week to keep you chasing. Classic fuckboy behavior.

- Actions speak louder than words - if he really cared, he'd make time for proper dates, not just booty calls. Where's the effort on his part?

- Stop being so available just for hooking up! You deserve better than to be his part-time side piece. Let him come chasing you for once.

- Take control back - tell him the games aren't flying anymore. Either he steps it up and takes you out proper, or you're moving on. NO sex until he shapes up!

- Don't let yourself be someone's convenient option. Don't settle for breadcrumbs - you're a whole damn meal sis!

Know your worth hun. This loser isn't it - you can do so much better than this drama. Put your foot down or cut him off for good!

[Avicenna]

He's probably doing the same thing with other women

[jahaims]

He is taking advantage of a stupid person. You know what is going on, you just are lying to yourself

[KatieNorCal]

Why are you here?

[jahaims]

Why am I on an opinion forum? To give my opinion. That was hard to figure out.