If boys only want physical intimacy from me does that mean i’m not useful or worth to be taken seriously for a real relationship?

[melaniegonza]

[lightbulb27]

people can want what they want, but you put up your parameters to protect yourself.

answer is no. watch any brat man child eat a bowl of cereal and you'll see how poorly trained and disciplined they are. sadly, you have to deal with the lack of training from parents and corruption of a very polluted environment. I wouldn't take all that on yourself image.

[DJB72]

It means they're boys, not men. Sorry. Guys in mid teens tend to be far too sexually hungry.

It's not you. It's them.

[Alice18]

Guys always want physical intimacy from us. It's just that most people put it in a box called love. Falling in love is rare and passes quickly. We can learn to use it and enjoy it.

[DishLady]

Possibly you’re putting out an energy/vibe that indicates you’re not interested in something long term.

[melaniegonza]

how? i’m myself and i never bring up sex at all? so talking about normal hobbies and talking normally is giving off a vibe i only want sex? i dress normally too

[DishLady]

You don’t have to TALK ABOUT it overtly to be giving off a vibe. You don’t have to overtly be exposing yourself either.

Try this… for perhaps a week, keep a journal of your thoughts. What you’re thinking or feeling about yourself is what they’re picking up on. You need to figure out what that is and you’ll have your answer.

[DishLady]

(It may take longer than a week, but start with a week and see where that takes you.)

[melaniegonza]

i so don’t get it. i think about myself normally?

[DishLady]

I’m sure.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

It doesn't mean you are not worthy, it means you are with wrong people. Please be careful out there and take your time to choose. ❤

[laly520]

it means u r around the wrong boys

also since u r a minor be aware of both online n irl predators

[Abbycado]

You’re dating or hanging out with the wrong guys.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Or you're interacting with the wrong people or... since you're 16 you mainly only have boys who are after sex.

[jahaims]

Serious relationships don't exist at your age

[melaniegonza]

but like girls my age have boyfriends and boys keep just trying to use me for sex and nothing else

[jahaims]

They are role-playing a romantic relationship. Those connections won't last. Don't worry about what others are doing. That is a poor way to live life.

[shortster]

No, boys are just immature.