Girls, Is it cheating or on the way to be?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend wears business casual for work. (Polos) He recently wore a button down shirt. This is unusual for him because he doesn’t like them. Another morning he said that his work place was giving him lunch (I make his lunch). I asked him about it and he said he had potatoes and baked chicken (I don’t cook meat). I thought this is a strange meal because that is something someone else would bring in not something I would see a work place cater. At his previous work I thought he was having a strange relationship with another woman who was married and she would bring him meals. (She wasn’t much older than him). He also sent me a screenshot of a pic she sent him of the food that she was brining him and I noticed that he loved the pic instead of liked it. I noticed some of his information isn’t adding up.

[Changiis07]

You have the right to ask him or to communicate that you are feeling that something is off. Maybe don't accuse him yet but most of the time our gut instinct is always right. Why was that lady only cooking for him and why was he accepting the food if he is with you? That doesn't seem right to me and you have the right to communicate clearly and set boundaries to what you will tolerate and what you will not. If he respects you he will not do that again. Relationships are all about communicating clearly what you want and need and what you won't put up with because if he isn't seeing your point of view someone else sure will