Am I being too picky about the women I like?

[lilbro96]

Ever since I was very little I was obsessed with older obese women. I literally never had a girlfriend in my schools or my current university because non of the women are fat enough for me and I like them older than me (I'm twenty eight) and taller than me (I'm 5'5) but here in northern Virginia it feels like that's hard to find any women like that who like young skinny guys like myself. Am I being too picky?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey man, we all have our preferences when it comes to dating, but it's important to be open-minded too. Some people may see only going for taller plus-sized older women as limiting your options unnecessarily.

That said, the most important thing is finding someone you're truly compatible with - not just physically. Maybe try expanding your definition of what you're attracted to by also considering a woman's personality, interests, values. Or dating sites that cater to certain niches may open more doors.

Don't get too hung up on exact checklists. Sometimes you meet someone unexpectedly different than your "type" but the chemistry is undeniable. Give people a chance based on who they are within.

As long as you treat every woman, whatever size/age, with respect, then stick to your preferences. But be willing to consider she may come in a package you didn't expect too. Keep an open heart and the right person will come.

[lilbro96]

I feel like of I had sex with a skinny woman I might accidently kill her by pink socking her pussy or asshole

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn man really

[Anonymous]

No you're not being to picky if that's what you like, just go where the big girls are if your looking for the like McDonald's, KFC, Walmart there are even some clubs exclusive to big girls like Club Bounce in California