Boyfriend took my v card over the weekend, could he have lost interest or should I be patient?

[Anonymous]

Been dating for 7 months now and we finally had sex. He planned out a romantic day for us and then once we went in it happened. We had 5 rounds of sex total and he said it was really good. He almost fell asleep but woke enough to take a shower and we left for dinner. Came back and we had sex once more before bed and had sex before leaving for breakfast.

He does work 3 jobs so I know he is a busy busy man. I have trust issues to a degree but I’m working to be different in this relationship. I want to be understanding of his time and energy and money. He took me home Sunday and we talked up to Sunday night but nothing on Monday.

In your opinion is it weird or should I wait before texting or calling him?

[Changiis07]

I don't think he lost interest more like as a women once you have sex it releases a hormone called oxytocin and you become more attached to your guy, so you start to overthink everything

[Asker]

The way I read that and completely forgot after having sex lol. That could very well be in play, I’ve even started overthinking my friendships

[Changiis07]

yes it kinda suck to be honest, once you have sex with you boyfriend you overthink a lot. It happens all the time

[Marred0710]

Maybe he got what he wanted n now he's bounced some guys a lot actually r like that get the v card n stop talking n everything

[ApplePie409]

It's been two days. Sheesh.

[Asker]

Lol okay thanks

[ApplePie409]

Hun, we are all our own worst enemies He was probably abducted by pygmies with blow dart guns. It's fairly common.


I actually bought a shorter version of the blow dart gun. I got incredibly good with it. I could hit a peanut from 20 feet away!

[Anonymous]

That was a big mistake

[Asker]

Care to elaborate

[Opinion Owner]

Never give it up like that

[Asker]

We waited 7 months lol

[Opinion Owner]

Wait until after you’re married

[Asker]

Oh lol well that’s too late