How much text when first date is settled?

[Anonymous]

Hello!

Yesterday, we settled up our first date now on Friday. We end our conversation yesterday. Our texting was in good quality and we responded within hour.

But feels strange to abruptly just don't write anything. I mean, from 1-2days of kinda "immense" texting, then we settled date, and now many sources and tips/advice not to text at all?

Don't text

Text once per day

Text as you did before, until the date

[Nirmroth]

Text a little bit each day. If the date is only like 1-2 days away its fine in my experience to not text at all aswell. Just make sure to confirmation text at the day of the date.

In the end if the convo is flowing you would be stupid to stop texting just for some rule. Likewise if the convo ended and she isn't making any effort to continue the texting then just dont text. When in doubt always match her energy.

[Asker]

We had a good energy yesterday, although we mostly blunttexting.
But many intels says that people hate "how was your day" thingy, and lame all day texting, especially in the beginning.
But it feels at best to text as you say 1-2times per day, but.. about what?

I mean, it's 5-6days to keep up a moment until the date, but in same time, not destroy the repor.

[Asker]

*bantertexting

[Nirmroth]

Ye avoid those how was your day check ins when you dont even had a first date.

I usually just keep talking about whatever convo we had going before.

If that one runs dry and she isn't making any effort aswell then its okay to stop texting. Forcing it comes of weird.

This doesn't mean she will flake, I met girls who I didn't text for days so its possible haha

[Asker]

Yeah, prob is it was a closed conversation.
I mean, feels weird to bring same things to the table again..

Anyway, thanks!

[Anonymous]

Live callls

[Asker]

She's not into calls, she prefer texting if any contact

[Opinion Owner]

Coward on her behavior

[Asker]

Maybe, but at least she agreed to met