My roommate went on a date with a guy from tinder yesterday and now she doesn't know if she's supposed to wait for him to text her or for her to text him first thanking him. Help?
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Most Helpful Guy
Doesn't matter. If you both like each other, then why wait? I mean surely you don't gotta smother someone and blow up their phone, but it's bullshit mind games like these with texting rules that ruin dating.
Let's say you have a good date and one party suggests hanging out again and says they had a good time. It's like if you text 1-3 days after the date, you're too clingy or overly interested which is bullshit especially if it's a simple hey.
If you wait any longer, you appear uninterested. I left high school a long time ago. I have no patience for that bullshit.1
Most Helpful Girl
Shit like this is why I absolutely hate dating. The general rule is text after 3 days to arrange a next date. If he hasn't text by then she should text him. I hate these bullshit rules but they're what we're told to do.3