Who should text first after first date?

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Who should text first after first date?
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  • I said, girls, But I totally agree with guys because I would. Which leaves the question... are guys allowed to text after the date, or is that clingy?

    I personally would just like the friendship, to be honest.

    I texted with a girl from my online school and had fun, we just had a simple phone call and I enjoyed texting back and forth after.

    Lots of lols and lots of fun.

    I guess texting is kind of like GAG in a way.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Both? The earlier the better. It's wrong to assume the guy should text first because 'that shows he's interested'. There's nothing wrong with being a girl, taking initiative and showing a guy you're interested...

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  • Eh, both? Who ever beats the other one to the punch.

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What Guys Said 36

  • If the guy asked the girl out for the first date I think the girl should text the guy first the next day. (Assuming the date wasn't a disaster or anything.) It's a nice courtesy to thank the guy for the date, especially if he paid for whatever they did or ate. And vice versa if the girl asked the guy out.

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  • Women are so picky a guy shouldn't waste time on them until THEY make the effort. When i was younger i did the traditional thing and got nowhere... Then i realised most women will use men just for attention and keep them on the hook, so started ignoring the shitty ones and only gave those my time who earned it.

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  • Girl should with at least simple thank you. Guy made the first initial step of asking the girl out, so the girl should show she is also interested but personally I write first as I don't mind

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  • Either or, as long as someone does. There should be no "games" like this. That's when things go wrong because people don't communicate, and then make assumptions. Which usually aren't true.

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  • I like it if the girl texts first. Because then I know she is interested, but it is no "should", I can write first too.

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  • Doesn't matter. Voice your opinion. If you had a good time text him first. If he did he will do the same. If you don't he will either think it went wrong or just forget about you.

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  • Well it depends if the guy was totally into you then you should take the first step because clearly he is more interested. In such situations men are always taught not to be so "thirsty" so they will hesitate to text first

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  • Text? Fuck that! Talk. Fuck. Text is just if it's a quick "hey I'll be there at 9" kind of thing

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  • Girls. I'll be too afraid. I don't want to seem too desperate. Even though I am.

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  • it doesn't matter who , i think the one who is more comfortable with the other person will text first

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  • Honestly it shouldn't be defined, most of the time it's a guy. But ladies if you really like him do it first guys will love it.

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  • Either. Why does it matter?

    I always text to make sure they get home safe, but I don't see why it has to be assigned to one gender to text first

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  • Why should we even text? Just book a hotel right after first date 😂😂

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  • Either one can text first and it should not matter.

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  • Really it shouldn't be one or the other. If either person feels like doing it they should.

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  • Anyone can

    The earlier the better

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  • Whoever the hell feels like it.

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  • absolutely hilarious stats

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  • Both.

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  • Whatever feels like it.

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What Girls Said 18

  • I always wait for the guy to text me because i'm so afraid if i text him first and he's not that interested. But i don't think there's a should. You text if you really liked the other person and you can accept being rejected.

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  • Doesn’t matter. I usually send a text after the date though, before or after his I don’t know, but just to say I had a fun time, got home safe, etc.

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  • I usually do to say thank you and tell them I had a good time well only if I did otherwise it's just common courtesy to say thanks

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  • Whatever feels right. But I l prefer to wait for the guy to text first after date shows if he is really interested or not

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    • Girl should with at least simple thank you. Guy made the first initial step of asking the girl out, so the girl should show she is also interested but personally I write first as I don't mind

    • Same can be applied to women.

  • I voted guy but that's because I'm extremely lazy when it comes to dating.

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  • why should we wait on a text if want to get back up with him why not just send text

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  • If you text first guys think your desperate or needy!

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    • And vice versa?

    • If the girl texts first, I think she's (finally!!) done sitting on her hands.
      Because women have basically 100 times more options of guys to pick from than guys do, women are lazy and have no consideration whatsoever for how hard it is to be a (average) man.

  • Both tbh

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  • either one.

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  • The person who suggested the date

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  • Girls because it’s cute

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  • doesn't matter

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  • Whoever wants to text

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  • Both ca text first

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  • Either one.

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  • Both

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  • He texted right after and ask for another. 😊

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  • Either one. Because

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