Really does it matter, is your ego that inflated that is he it she don't text me then I'm just not going to talk to her again or him so childish, get over this kind of behavior, thinking, if you why it has a great time who gives a damn who is the first to say morning how are you I had a great time last night, what is so difficult about that, get off this kick in who do what first, so dumb you like some one tell them, they either like your ass to or don't, but either way your not stalking them spending ask your time wondering do they or not, we have a limited amount of time here why water it on such, nonsense, so stop it, with the who does what first, and quit trading ask these, this is how to do it books, his to blah blah blah, those people who wrote them have no clue only guessing saying what they think you want to hear it start a trend for one purpose make money, they care nothing about you but what's in your wallet, follow your own instinct not what some writer claims is the way it should be, unless they are God, then I would listen but another person trying you how to live your life come on, you want to be hip cool with it in the now, be your damn self what works for one won't for another, remember that, and cut ask this nonsense out your into some one just tell them
If you want to see the person again then go ahead and text them. If you are trying to play the "Who should text first" game you might lose out. Just be authentic.
I think there should be an equal effort made to keep in contact with each other if you’re really interested. Tbh I don’t feel as if it’s fair to always have the guy doing things first but I guess in a way, it shows that he’s interested and wanting something with you. (May not always be the case)
Then again I had messaged my fiancée first after our first date, he took me home and right as soon as I was ready for bed I texted him first.
Whoever feels like sharing their feelings! Guy or girl. Doesn't matter.
If a good response comes from it, you're on a roll for the next date!
If nothing, well, that speaks volumes too!
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Why can't girls text first so a guy doesn't seem easy?
Look. Whoever invited the person on the date should technically text first after the date. Then the person who invited should request for a second date if they like them. It could be a girl or guy. Most cases it is a guy. But wait until the next day to text her. Dont be needy.
u Obviously, neither one wants to text first and appear to be too eager or too easy, so I think both should wait for the other one to call. After one week, give up on the other person and move on to your next first date.
The girl, assuming the guy was the one who asked her out.
The guy already made it pretty clear that he is interested in her with the action of asking her out.
Now it's her turn to express how she feels about it and to either OK more dates or say she have had enough.
I honestly never had this issue. In my case, the girl always texted back first. But that's most likely because:
1. I told her to tell me when she got home safe.
2. We've already decided on going on another date after having a good connection. So the ego is not an issue anymore.
If you're in this position struggling to find out who should text first, then I doubt you had good chemistry, to begin with. It also shows a level of immaturity there.
For me I don't really care about the protocol or what's right what's wrong or what people think. If I like you, then I'm happy I'm excited and and I want to hear your voice so I won't text you I called call you and say, hey how are you, can we go out again
It doesn't matter. Trivial things like this won't make or break a relationship.
Any guy who would think that a woman is "too easy" is not worth dating, so never worry about that. Do what you feel and if the guy doesn't like it, he's not the guy for you.
Who ever didn't pay? Then it's just chasing them. Their needs to be some sort or appreciation or reciprocation for the act and feelings if the feelings are there. (Not anything sexual)
If the person doesn't text back after then you know then it's not worth another date.
After the date? If one person has decided there shouldn't be a 2nd date, they should text first and as soon as possible, so you don't leave her waiting around or she doesn't let him fret over whether he should ask for a 2nd date or whatever.
If both think it went well, then I don't think it matters, so long as one of them does before too long.
In my world the girl needs to contact me first because I am the one who initiates, arranges and pays for the date. By contacting me afterwards, she is offering a small token of her appreciation to show that she thanks me and is interested in seeing me again.
Irrelevant. The point is to see each other again. Immobility because you're too busy considering which gender should make the move could lose you a potential relationship.
Whoever is mature and likes the other person will message the other whenever they feel like it. It isn't a complicated game. If you like them and want to see them again message them.
In your context the girl is always the one invited? Makes for a shitty dating experience.
Me I think it shouldn't be a rule, whoever has something to say first should text
Thats a pointless question. No one should be thinking about any of that. If you want to talk to someone, talk to them. It does not matter who texts first, and it does not make it seem like anything.
If your interested in them it don't matter your gender just hit them up and see if anything more can happen.
Whoever asked the other out should call or message saying they enjoyed their company and propose a second date, with time, location, and activity.
Wow, I love your dusty old assumptions here
Girls, cause they’ve been invited (welcome 2021, how about the other way round?)
Guys, so it doesn’t seem like a girl is easy. (WTF!!!)
No one should be expected to text first based on if they're a guy or a girl. If you're interested in talking again, then shoot them a message. It's literally that simple.
It doesn't matter, and my advice would be not to wait for the other person to text- go ahead and be the one to initiate
it doesn't matter who does it. you do it because you like him/her, no need to wait around.
There's no "should" to this. Just be real. Say what you want to say in person, then a follow up text won't matter
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