I already said in person that it was nice to meet him after we parted our ways.
he's not interested. I read your forwarded messages to another commenter, and he said "I would go back- at least for me." that right away meant he doesn't plan to go back with you lol
otherwise he would've said, "Yeah I plan to go back." and maybe even a: "maybe we can schedule another time/ pick out another day we can go there."
He didn't do either of those. There is a psychological thing guys do when they like girls, it is said, they will say "we" a lot when they talk about future plans, if they see a future with a girl. He didn't mention any we's and even went the extra mile to say "Well, for MYSELF"
To me, the date with him doesn't seem too promising.
As far as who should text back first, I think the guy should as that's how we were brought up, and not only so, but girls fall a bit quicker than guys, on the emotional spectrum, so you letting him text first is the best indicator to see if he's still interested or not, and WHAT he's interested in specifically. Not all guys say their "day is made," when they just get a cup of coffee with a girl...
lol it's just not their cup of tea. Respectively.
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I don't know if I'm just old school, but I do think men should text you, or even ask you when you get home safe.
If you had a great time, be bold, take a leap.
Sounds like your first date was mundane.
And just a thank you is just as mundane.
If the connection was obvious, it wouldbt ve cryptic, anything one text would suffice, but keep the flame ignited by say the unexpected and having a laugh, or even be aroused, whatever closes the night in happiness.
You could even send a serious confession that yoyr date was brutal and you had the worse time and could not say it to their face. Then text him you just playing around, that to let them know they made it to the second tound of your affection, and put them on the spot asking what they have planed for date 2 that will survive to week 3 , and hint at them needing to prepare more capital than covering a cofee - a joke that should be considered nonetheless
This is so cute because you went out he hasn't called yet and you're jonesing for that call just do it there is no social ethics just do it if you want to do it do it if you like the guy do it stop following the rules if there are any you make your own rules if you like somebody you tell them you show them so don't make up excuses to thank him for the coffee just call him
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Why overthink something like that? If you enjoyed the date, text and let the person know.
I would wait for a got home text or for some time to pass, but otherwise I'm usually the one texting first.
You should thank him. I dont think it's an issue if a girl shows her appreciation first.
If you want to reach out, you do it. Maybe he thinks you have multiple options and is just waiting for you to say something.
Technically, the guy should text, but some guys may have severe anxiety and might need a nudge to keep the liveliness going. In that case don't be afraid to send the first text
I think it's a good idea for the woman to text him after the date. It keeps her on his mind and it confirms that she is interested in a second date
The girl should text first because he should know that you are interested in him after having a coffee.
You should definitely show some appreciation for him paying for you, but both of you should text to keep the connection going.
If you want to text him, do it. There is no protocol.
It doesn't matter who; somebody needs to do it, that's all
Who should text after first date? Who's wana have good time.
Did you thank him in person?
The last thing I want is a text.
It's up to you. There's no rule.
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