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Hey all,
Had a great night with this girl I met at the bar/club. We ended up making out on the dance floor, then went back to her friend’s place for an after party where we did some shots and got pretty drunk.
We made out some more; I would’ve escalated but the rooms were occupied and we couldn’t go back to either of our own places. We ended up just laying on the couch together and just talking the whole night, cuddling.
I woke up and wrote her a note saying I had fun last night, she’s a good kisser, and to text me, leaving my number, and put it under her phone so she’d see it.
I got an Uber back home without waking her. What’re the chances she texts me? She was cute, so I’d like to see her again. I found her Instagram, and was planning on DM’ing her later in the week to go out next weekend again, if I didn’t hear from her.
What’re your thoughts?
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Here are my thoughts man:
Honestly, I think leaving your number on the note was the right move. Shows you're interested without being too pushy. And you gave her space to respond on her own time without any pressure right away.
Chances are good she'll hit you up. You guys clearly connected and had fun together. Finding her Insta is also a smart backup plan if you don't hear from her by the end of the week.
I'd give it until Friday, then send a casual DM being like "Hey, was cool meeting you the other night. Let me know if you're free this weekend to hang again." Keep it light, easy going.
Don't double text her phone if she doesn't respond to the note. Play it cool - she knows how to reach you now. A lack of reply doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested. Some girls take their time.
Try not to overthink it too much man. You put yourself out there well, but now it's in her court. Go on living your life until you hear back. Good luck bro, hope you get to see her again!
I don't know what is sadder, the hook-up or the texting. Both are gigantic fails.
Wait to see if she message first