Does a tall good looking guy automatically get an advantage over shorter guys?

Question

If the guy doesn't speak the language but is taller and "better looking" but doesn't have a good job, would girls go crazy over him vs a guy who is shorter but doesn't have a square jaw, should i be insecure? ps I'm the shorter guy.

jazzyjic78 · Accepted Answer

No, not really some people prefer different types of men all different heights. And just because he's tall doesn't make him better than the rest, he could be an asshole, controlling, conceded, and broken and thinks just because he's tall he has an advantage.
Short guys have the same issues, and are sometimes worse than the tall guys especially if they have money and big packages.

Then again it just all depends on how loving, caring, and compassionate a person is whether there short or tall. And when dating a taller guy you kinda feel safe and secure because you have to look up to him and it feels like a giant is looking down to grasp you.

No matter a person height once your in bed together everything evens out and meet up at the right place. When it comes to height I don't discriminate because sometimes big things come in small packages and tall guys are more of a whore than the others because everyone wants the tall guys.

And if he's tall, dark, and handsome your gonna have problems with other chicks wanting him too, so be careful running after those types, you have to be ready to battle spiritually and physically especially if he is confused and haven't made up his mind who he wants to be with.

Normally these types of guys if they do not have knowledge and wisdom they make the wrong choice choosing, because when they thought they were ready to make a decision everything & everyone is coming at em, including the past.

That's bad sign right there, so don't get to caught up in him, always have a back up plan or you'll be really hurt thinking he is it, just because he is so tall. It does feel good hugging a tall guy though 🤣.

Seinna · Accepted Answer

Tall and good looking > short and average, but that only works if other qualities are similar. If the tall and good looking guy has serious shortcomings (like in your example) then that would make him less attractive. Similarly, if the short (also depends on how short) and average guy can greatly increase his attractiveness with good personality and career. How much value women put on these things can vary from person to person. Of course life isn't fair so there are people who have it all and those who seem to have very few of the things that the opposite sex values.

Either way there's no point comparing yourself with anyone else, just do as much as you can to improve yourself... not just to attract a partner but to be a better person. If you are trying to find a partner avoid hanging out with guys who will overshadow you. I mean don't let your potential partner's first impression of you to be lesser than that of your friend, I'm NOT saying to give up on those friendships.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Well the Tall - good looking guy May have a 'physical' advantage... in that respect, and you can see that in any night spot probably.

One of my YOGA instructors is TINY, but has the physique of an Olympian, and an ass that will bring tears to the eyes of most men...and her boyfriend must be 6'4" and 225... Don't ask me why? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤔🤔🤔

I have to believe he is a good guy because she is the type that would not put up with an asshole... but... YES... the short answer seems to be that I agree with you.

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Depends on the woman. Also, no matter how good looking you are, some women will never be interested in you. The best thing you can do is focus on being the best man you can be which will give you more options. Check out my mytakes if you're interested in more traditional stuff.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Nope… Be confident in who you are. That’s what we find the sexiest…

northerngal · Answer

Sadly first impressions seem to matter in our society... its not fair but its the way it is. So to answer this probably it would make a difference. But that impression lasts a very short time and then it can work against you if you do not live up to the expectation.

Anonymous · Answer

Height is overrated. If you have no idea how to build attraction then it won't make any difference. Height is only a potential initial advantage. I am 5'7 which is considered short but I've never even given it a second thought. There was a time where I used to approach women in the street, Malls, anywhere I saw one I may be interested in and I always had a great reception. But I learned how to build attraction. I had a friend who was much taller (over 6ft) and he noticed I had just as much interest from women as he did.

mattthefatbat · Answer

I'd say solely based on physical attraction and appearance yes because most women usually don't choose a shorter guy as their dream boyfriend, but one advantage that honestly over shadows being shorter is being better put together and treating the woman you like right. Your dream relationship doesn't have to end just because some are too shallow to see what is really worth having in the long run

Anonymous · Answer

Weird thing is I never really thought about height being a big deal for girls back in HS and college. I’m 6ft and athletic but I had shorter guys beating me to the punch a few times.

But in my mid 20s and on I noticed height was more of an issue.

strateguy632 · Answer

advantage? thAt is the wrong word. a tall good looking guy automatically has a shot, a chance due to tall. but she will never know if the short guy is nice. doubt? just read dating app profiles.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Sorry bro but it's true some women will say otherwise but it's a lie. Look at what they're say if your personality it better then the tall guy. But think about it do the know your personality when the see you and the tall guy for the first time? So you already know that's a lie

KBird · Answer

Not for me. Its purely a preference. I like men that are shorter, or around my height. :) I typically find tall men intimidating, I dont know why.

genericname85 · Answer

100%. just like a woman with big tits automatically gets an advantage over girls with small or no tits. tho girls with small tits also find boyfriends right? so if you're not tall, don't make your confidence about your hight. simple as that.

OddBeMe · Answer

Studies have show relentlessly it’s true in a broad sense. More attention, more breaks in life to attractive people. But overall, I still think personality and right puzzle piece connection is most important.

JacobJordan · Answer

I sure hope not but unfortunately evidence suggests it is at least partially true

Anonymous · Answer

Some guys are always going to blame the thing they can't change, because fundamentally they are LAZY. They will blame height, penis size, no square jaw, skin colour, whatever. Because theyre fucking LAZY.

DizzyDesii · Answer

A guy with a cute face, a proportionate body, and good posture automatically gets an advantage over both

CrabCakes11 · Answer

I am not attracted to very tall men. If your personality is better than the tall dude you’ll win over the right women

Kit_Kat88 · Answer

To attract them and get a date they have a better chance but for a relationship they would want the shorter guy who treats her well and has a stable job

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Pretty / handsome privilege is a thing, yes. And tall men are usually treated better too, sadly.

That doesn't mean that a short dude is doomed, though. You'll just have to work harder to go against the grain.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Please don't get feel that way. Sure, we might see them first.. but funny guys win for me! 😄

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nope, it is usually quite the opposite. Especially if you are short like me.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, statistics show that taller men are more successful. Most of the US presidents are tall.

thegreenyogi · Answer

It all depends on what the girl likes and finds or doesn't find attractive.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm 6' 9" and I haven't seen any sexual/romantic advantages.

Anonymous · Answer

^^^^^^^^

AngelLily · Answer

It depends does the Women have low standards an is only going after Looks?

DrPepper12 · Answer

Yes. Proven fact. Height is associated with leadership qualities.

handsomelad70 · Answer

H**L YES !!! If I were 6'21/2" instead of 5'81/2", I'd have been Windsor's top stud !!!

Anonymous · Answer

obviously the tall good looking guy has an advantage

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. Some girls are not into tall guys, so there is no "automatic."

AngryCarl · Answer

If you're short you're automatically disqualified, sorry.

Anonymous · Answer

does a 21 yr old woman automatically get an advantage over a 35 yr old woman?

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

Not at all. That's why ugly comedians are married to all the hotest starlets

Pohjolan · Answer

Not automatically but compared to a guy who is otherwise of the same calibre.

CaitlinSims25 · Answer

Nope I had bad experience with good looking tall men. Some did cheated on me. prefer avenge height men or bit shorter.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it looks like you really know the answer, but you still want to hear from girls. It's not true! But it's not going to change reality. Don't believe what they say; observe what they do.

Anonymous · Answer

I would say if she’s a quality person it wouldn’t. But of course…. Because people are shallow and life is not fair.

DextroShade · Answer

Yes, he absolutely would.

Jay-_- · Answer

Most women would say no, I respectfully call BS 😂

msc545 · Answer

Yes, he certainly does.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not necessarily.

HurremSultan · Answer

Yes to me

minzgeprahl · Answer

Yeah

lars787800 · Answer

Maybe

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