Is it bad that I want my boyfriend to put more effort into me like dates?

[Anonymous]

But also I've never really been on a date so is that fair? He does everything else fine...

[DishLady]

You have to tell him that you'd like him to plan things a little more, otherwise (especially if he's been around the block a few times) he'll just skim along the surface of relationship-ville assuming that you get the gist of what he's doing.

"Bad" no -- don't beat yourself up for wanting a nice experience with the guy. This part is on him, but you do have to be a little more specific about wanting the whole nine yards of the dating experience.

[jahaims]

As long as you are meeting all of your duties. You are able to take him on dates as well.

[Nerdvana]

Yes it fair and reasonable to expect him to take you on dates.

[serious]

No, it is a fair expectation

[Sophia00]

it’s okay if u also make the effort

[Asker]

I do...