I have a boyfriend for 10 years but he isn't proposing or?

[Shakalaka]

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or something. I just tometimes see him following random girls on insta and liking them pics. Why would he do that?

[Anonymous]

Why do men stay with women they never intend to marry?

The reason is likely explained by the anon 45+ question / answer.

[AviatorTom]

After 10 years, you know he's not interested in getting married. He prefers playing the field, and you've let him do that. If you want to get married, find another guy.

[Nikki1989]

Stop wasting your time. Life is short, and it seems like you have wasted 10 years.

[Apple1996]

God dammn 10 years! You should have proposed instead of him 😂

[edmwarrior]

Men are visual creatures. Take it as admiring Ancient Rome’s beauty or a nice car. He wouldn’t choose it over you, but he admires them.

I will say I’d stop liking random girls pics if I got into a relationship though, out of respect for her, and not wanting to hurt her feelings. I just hope she could do something similar for me, like not responding to thirsty dudes in her DMs

[avery58]

👏🏻👏🏻 agree with what you have said. People should respect their partner's feelings

[RavVid]

Women have killed off marriage along with chivalry. It was an explicit aim of feminism. You shouldn't want this

[serious]

In that case marriage may not be something that is on his mind

[Alex-Snow]

Is he getting bored? Have you talked about marriage with him? How is ur sex life with him has it changed lately?

[noohair]

Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex.
It was usually courtship and marriage.
Women wanted freedom and equality.
This is what freedom and equality looks like.

[JacobJordan]

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free

[bobby_bush_eater]

10 years is legitimately ultimatum territory, he's lived with you basically as a wife without any actual commitment

[Anonymous]

You need to tell him to either piss or get off the pot, so to speak.

[exitseven]

Why would he want to get married?

[Shakalaka]

Because we have been together for so long?

[exitseven]

He is getting milk straight from the cow.

[exitseven]

@shakalaka okay. I am sorry for that. I know it is a real issue. You need to make your needs known. He is comfortable with the arrangement and things will not change if you do not discuss marriage.

[DrPepper12]

Why don't you propose to him?

[Danny_dan92]

Ok, then if it bothers you, break up

[Iron_Man]

It’s been 10 years ask him

[Anonymous]

🤣 lollll