Do men really care if a woman's bra and panties match?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

For me, seeing that the panties and bra match does not get me more aroused. But matching panties and bra tells me a few things about a woman:

1. She put some thought into how she would be dressed for the occasion.

2. She is a woman who pays attention to details.

3. Most women say that they wear matching panties and bra to boost their own self-confidence. So at least some - maybe many of them - need some boost to their confidence and I should should offer some compliments about her appearance and sexual appeal.

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

Nah though um matching bra and panties is a good indicator if she wants sex, because she intends the perozn she shows to see it.

GOLDFISH_smile · Accepted Answer

I said no but really it depends on the guy. I mean you're going to end up naked either way prolly but, like for my husband he finds it distracting if I'm mismatched, so if I am we just only stay in our underwear for short amount of time.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

@coachtanthony  Please let's get real for once... Other than our underwear being on the floor, guys wouldn't even notice! lol

AviatorTom · Answer

Whether her bra and panties match is not even something we guys notice, let alone care about.

TheorionMage · Answer

'Form follows Function'...  foremost the function is sanitation  THEN  sensory  affect! How does their choice AFFECT ... BOTH the Wearer and the 'Audience'? 
   Sensation:how do YOU 'feel'? Foremost, 'the fit' or 'cut'.  
 Next, the tactile affect... underwear is an intimate surrogate.  
 Does it provoke / invite physical touching? 
 Does it bolster the Wearer's sense of 'desirability' rather than merely 'support'? 
 
 'Why' juvenile pre-adolescent's common underwear is SO societially limiting? 
 How readily that child seems to just slide off your lap--- The Brooke Shields period promo photo for 'Pretty Baby' comes to mind ~ 
 
 Ever wonder what austere religious Clerics intimately wear Sensation:how do YOU 'feel'? Foremost, 'the fit' or 'cut'.  
 Next, the tactile affect... underwear is an intimate surrogate.  
 Does it provoke / invite physical touching? 
 Does it bolster the Wearer's sense of 'desirability' rather than merely 'support'? 
 
 'Why' juvenile pre-adolescent's common underwear is SO societially limiting? 
 How readily that child seems to just slide off your lap--- The Brooke Shields period promo photo for 'Pretty Baby' comes to mind ~ 
 
 Ever wonder what austere religious Clerics intimately wear neath their dowdy vestiture?  
 Positing what is the source of that soft faint rustling sound as she passes near? 
 "Lead us NOT into temptation"  (but fuel our self-imagined fantasies) ---  ;)

purplepoppy · Answer

Absolutely, the number of times I've had my sexual advances rejected because of it is ridiculous. Even just a different shade kills it completely. Guys are way too choosy when it comes to sex.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm guy that appreciates aesthetic. And I'll be honest... I do care. They don't have to necessarily match in colour but they should look nice together.

It's not a deal breaker to not match, but it does show if they put effort into their appearance and that matters to me... effort in a relationship. The day you don't put any effort into your appearance (stop working out, eating healthy, dressing nicely, cleaning yourself up nicely, etc) is the day things will start to go downhill in a relationship.

In my opinion, people that just expect their partner to love them no matter what are delusional. "Sorry Becky, I didn't fall in love with the overweight girl that seems to not care for her health or looking nice. I fell in love with the opposite."

Effort matters.

Morgan_L · Answer

I always try to have matching bra and panties when I think I will have sex. But on occasions when it doesn’t no guy ever said get out 😂

Nikki1989 · Answer

I doubt if many would care too much.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Not really when she's just being casual. However, it's kind of nice on special occasions to go with the dress.

molonski2 · Answer

I care , they should match attention to detail , if remotely possible.

cince200X · Answer

Our mind always try to find patterns and symmetry so i will be in Yes.

Wiredone · Answer

No I don't care at all. My wife's never match. None of my past girlfriends had matching bras and panties either

onedarkcloud · Answer

Most guys could care less if they match, it is the goodies under them the guys want to look at. Matching underwear is like wearing a Tuxedo. Mismatched is like wearing a sports coat and dungarees comfortable.

ZackBan · Answer

By the time underware are in play i doubt any man will nitpick the fashion.

sheikalana · Answer

I don’t think they care but if they see something that is visually stimulating they surely get excited.

AngryCarl · Answer

I don't think it's a requirement. If it was, why would they be sold separately? You don't buy one sock.

Anonymous · Answer

I like it! Even better if they're a bit see through. But of course it's FAR more important that her body be as hot as possible. Hot body and so-so lingerie beats so-so body and hot lingerie every single time!

Dongie · Answer

Yeah, but it's always nice to see a mismatched set in my bedroom.

paledreams · Answer

I do care team perfection is everything hahahaha 😂😆🤩🤩

Anpu23 · Answer

Is it a photo shoot or sex? Sex no, photo shoot yes.

Meropatrick · Answer

Its the first time i see u it not matching in that pic so it looks out of place 😂😂

Anonymous · Answer

I'll be honest it would always bother me at least a little if it didn't match. It's like socks not matching or odd numbers for me it would always bug me at least a little to a lot I guess depending on how different.

AustColombiangirl · Answer

I don't wear matching sets as I don't wear panties

RingOfFire · Answer

Not if she looks like that! I wouldn't care if she was wearing a cardboard box!

Jay0102 · Answer

I like matching underwear 80 percent of the time

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

He likes it when he sees 'em matched but he often says it doesn't matter so much.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Personally, I'd rather wear no undies if they don't match. It's a win-win situation! 🤪😂

NathanDavis · Answer

doesn't really matter to me

LostSouls_ · Answer

As a man, do you care? 🤔

CrabCakes11 · Answer

Mine doesn’t care. They end up on the floor or pushed aside anyways

JonCobretti · Answer

What tf does that even matter for, we're gonna rip it off anyways

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Both are removable. = perfect match to me :)

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not at all... it is her body and her choice on what she wants to wear

HM1189 · Answer

If the woman's pretty, attractive and sexy, no one'll care about her underwear but see her without them

Apple1996 · Answer

Most guys probably don't care

noohair · Answer

I don't care if the socks are mismatched either.

RavVid · Answer

They are about to come off aren't they?

Crazyced · Answer

I like the effort, it's a nice thought.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

As much as i love women in lingerie/undies, i do not care if the match

msc545 · Answer

Don't really care at all.

MysticDevice · Answer

Its really nice if they do.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I don't care, so he has to deal with it :D

Pavy1981 · Answer

No it makes no difference

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Second choice

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Why should we? Ours don't!

tasqueen · Answer

For girls it's really matters

stratford · Answer

It's what's inside them that counts :-)

zoomio · Answer

No, we're just happy enough to see em!

handsomelad70 · Answer

I wouldn't, but that's me.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Why would I care about something I can't see?

Smartman5 · Answer

Personally I prefer it to be compatible

grega239 · Answer

Never have and never will

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Not when she looks like that.

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

I don't care even an iota.

mickeysmonkey · Answer

We do not even notice if they are clean

Joshgag2000 · Answer

I don’t care

Darkchild25 · Answer

Not at all.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

I do not.

Wise4myage · Answer

I certainly don't.

pethouse · Answer

No no we don’t

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