What are some turn offs when getting to know someone?

[Toya33]

[naartjie]

• has no manners
• is unhygienic
• has a wandering eye
• folding list looks like he went to an all girls school
• is rude about other cultures
• can’t say sorry when at fault
• talks to several people just because they can and they aren’t dating
• aren’t open to try new things
• serious and can’t have a good time or a genuine laugh
• judgmental over every little thing
• someone who is always negative and complaining
• someone who isn’t open minded and just does what people in power tell them to
• someone who doesn’t have respect for parent and grandparents who are good to them
• only thinks of themselves and never thinks of how they can help or give back to their parents/grandparents


These are some serious ones that I’d end things with someone if they did

[Nikki1989]

Phone addiction, wanting to text, video chat etc.

Bad communication habits, basically.

[woahhh152]

Rude behaviour, says how best he is as compared to others, on his phone

[DishLady]

Dishonestly is the big one.