What makes you want to get to know someone?

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Iamasking · Accepted Answer

I'll be honest. Firstly, his physical appearance. If i don't like the way how he look, probably i'll start to see him as a friend. But, there are always exceptions. Secondly, how interesting person he is. I want to learn new things and have a lot of fun with my partner. And thirdly, how nice and kind he is. You know, a person can be an interesting person with a bad personality, so nice personality is also important.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Usually it's something about them that makes them stand out, typically their personality.

Have you ever met someone and just been instantly drawn to them? The right person (s) give off this vibe, that make me want to approach and get to know them more.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

It is a crazy thing that goes far beyond physical appearances. You get the feeling that you could just stay up all night with this person just talking about random things. She is on your mind 24/7 and you don't know why. It could be a simple as a friendly glance or an outstretched hand.

ralphphilip83 · Accepted Answer

I seek out people who have stories to tell. People who have served in the army, firefighters, doctors, nurses... they have had the best experiences and the older they are the more crazy, what-the-fuck stories they’ll have. Someone who has spent his whole life on a barstool- not so much.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Their character, personality, interests. Have to see and find some commonalities there. I look for sweetness, intelligence, wit, life experience, a certain cool factor.

Levi4444 · Answer

How nice/kind they are. And how well they can keep a conversation with me and not let it go dry or go to something inappropriate

Coulis · Answer

It's rather subconscious. Something will just strike me about them and I become curious. If I encounter someone doing a task or their job and they are doing it with precision or a degree of excellence then I will want to know more about them.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Every time I hear this song that feeling comes over me.

Poppykate · Answer

I love to get to know people who are really passionate. Those people who really love their work, or hobby. They know every aspect of it and are happy to share the knowledge.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Friends Male: Guys that understand manhood. Someone I can learn from Girlfriends : Attractive, respectful Dont get friend zoned. Wasting time is kinda embarrassing, its priceless

notserana · Answer

Their talents mostly. I love it when people have hobbies & actually focus on the things they like instead of doing nothing all day

TheorionMage · Answer

Contextually insightful perspectives and life experiences supporting same.  NEVER too old... to learn or reconsider my opinions! (Y) ;)

Elizabeth992 · Answer

If they remind me of myself. If they show integrity and compassion. If they know what they want.  If they are cultured and considerate.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

If I feel like we have a good vibe together. Feel that I can be myself with them and if I feel that they want to know about me too.

Dude_777 · Answer

Success in life. I always surrounded myself with successful people and learnt a lot from their lives, and all that made tremendous improvements in my life as well.

Bluemax · Answer

Typically when they say something funny, intelligent, insightful, or profound

MCheetah · Answer

If they're not stupid or boring. Most people are both, in my opinion.

JBlade · Answer

I don't outside of work. At work, it's good to know a bit so I know how to deal with them.

K-I-S-S · Answer

At first, most likely how they look. If i already know them a bit then something we can share doing together.

ToastyOats · Answer

They really need a few lifetimes under their belt before ill even bother. Its great if they've experienced some of the same periods of history. Knowing what the last Ice Age was like is a big plus!

morgan10133 · Answer

Intelligence. Being able to hold a conversation about many topics is so important to me!

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Similar hobbies, fun to talk with, good sense of humor; that kind of thing.

JosyJosy · Answer

They either catch my attention somehow or we just get along, one of these two or both

DaveToo · Answer

We are first attracted to someone by physical appearance, then by conversation.

Anonymous · Answer

If they are beneficial, I like to be useful to people and id like it to be the same way around.

bannacookies · Answer

If I see a happy person, I want to get to know them.

Mrsinful111 · Answer

I prefer to keep to myself. But I have had good experiences in a book store chatting with someone of a common interest.

Allyqueen · Answer

Well it could be character or some kind of connection

Grafev · Answer

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DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Because they are interesting.

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

To be perfectly honest my IQ is 175 so to be perfectly honest any IQ over 135

beebella · Answer

Usually if I like their face.

LemiaOfChampions · Answer

Friendlyness and attitude.

InferiorElegy · Answer

It used to be either their smile or personality, now I just don't want to get to know people.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Personality typically. Once in a while looks too.

Andres77 · Answer

The feeling I get when they walked into the room.

Wise4myage · Answer

Shared interests and how friendly a girl is.

Anonymous · Answer

Their sense of humour.

_no_one_ · Answer

Their vibe, interests and common sense.

DavidHart · Answer

if they are kind person.

Still-alive · Answer

The seem genuine and can take a few jokes

clampfan101 · Answer

Seeing potential for a good friendship. (Or more.)

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Depends, what I'm expecting from this person.

Guardian45 · Answer

Intelligence, Humor, Humility, Passionate

msc545 · Answer

Their perceived intelligence.

Stormdoğan · Answer

If they can make me laugh

Hulk30 · Answer

good looks and personality to go with it

interrogativa · Answer

Their level of kindness and genuine interest in me

Mars0614 · Answer

probably if they have an amazing personality

Battooot · Answer

Wife

Anonymous · Answer

I don't want to know anyone.

Marhaban-1 · Answer

If they are kind

Noahcepticeye · Answer

If they're cute

Iron_Man · Answer

Her companionship

roy_ricky09 · Answer

intelligence

jeffryrobertbabb · Answer

A girl who is interesting to talk to, and sexy

Asianguy123 · Answer

attitude

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