First kiss at his place?

[Anonymous]

well we had our first kiss at his place and i didn't even see him like that before the kiss.
we made out like 3 times in 30minutes (with pauses) i think?


i’ve heard that first kisses should always be on public or it’s a red flag. what’s your opinion on it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, having your first kiss at his place can be kinda iffy. On one hand though, the vibe was clearly right if y'all couldn't keep your hands off each other! That's a good sign he's into you.

Some things to think about:

- Was it just you two alone? Or were other people/roommates around too? Being totally alone could be riskier.

- Did he make any moves to go further than kissing? Respecting boundaries is important.

- Did he ask how you felt after or check that you were comfortable? Good communication is key.

- Have you been on actual dates too, or was this the first real one-on-one interaction? Context matters.

As long as you felt safe and he treated you well, I wouldn't say it's necessarily a red flag. But going forward, maybe suggest meeting more in public places too so you can ease into things at a pace you both feel good with. Focus on how he acts overall - if he respects you, then this kiss was probably fine!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope that not a red flag at all. Did you like it I hope you enjoy your first anything should always be memorable

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[sheikalana]

That’s some BS. I never heard such thing. Where we live PDA is forbidden in public places so our first kiss was obviously indoors.

[L892129]

I mean mine was at his apartment and lasted like 2.5 hours. If it was good, good! Lol. Not necessarily a red flag.

[In_Trance]

So what's your question

[Asker]

it’s literally at the end of the script lol