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Im 25 he's 30 is that too large of an age gap?

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Im 25 he's 30 is that too large of an age gap?
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  • HawkPerception
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    Master Age: 32 , mho 35%
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    Not large at all. There are people that date even 20 years in difference. The older you get, the less the age matters. If you're worried about social norms, then use the "half your age plus 7" rule. You start with the older person in the equation and whatever the result is, is the youngest they can go to be socially acceptable. In your case, 30 / 2 = 15... 15 + 7 = 22. So the youngest he can date while being socially accepted by the majority of society is 22.

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  • adventurous-1
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    Xper 6 Age: 71
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    not at all, my wife is 13 years older than me. When we met up and started going together everyone told us it wouldn't work due to the age gap. We've been happily married for fifty years. PS my wife was ahead of her time as cougars were as yet unknown in the dating scene back in the mid seventies.

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  • PBandJ_Nerd
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    Guru Age: 27 , mho 51%
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    I'd say no. It's pretty normal for people who are 25-30 years. old to date each other. I mean, the guy on here I talk to is almost 30 and I'm almost 25, so yeah, it's not much of a problem with that age gap.

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  • Caroline91
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    Yoda Age: 34 , mho 48%
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    It is if you think it is. My husband is 15 years older than I am. We’ve been married 10 years and counting.,, It works for us!

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  • Summeroflove
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    It’s 5 years. No. It depends on the intentions of both of you more then anything.

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  • Fireguy17
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    no, not at all.
    As we get older 5 years is nothing.
    If he was 20 and you were 15, the same 5 year age spread, yes that would be a great difference.
    You are both consenting adults, so if you are both fine with it, what does it matter.
    Would you feel the same if the numbers were reversed?

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  • Keyboardkat
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    Yoda Age: 81 , mho 41%
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    No, it isn't. My wife and I have the same age gap, and it's really nothing. You'll find the older you get, the less that will matter. If he's the right one for you, go for it! Good luck!

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  • paledreams
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    I'm 30 and even when I was 29, I've been open and keen to dating a woman aged 23-24 or even 20.
    I'm 30 now and still enjoy the earlier to mid 20s women in my mind healthier, fitter, slimmer :P primed ♀️

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  • Flatmanlewis
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    Yoda Age: 52 , mho 46%
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    Not at all. I’ve heard from more than a few women in my social circle that they felt the best relationships they had were about 4-5 years older than them just to find a matching level of maturity.

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  • ShellyB
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    Yoda Age: 28 , mho 68%
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    No I think the age diff is not likely to cause any problems, JMO!

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  • BobbieBoy666
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    Guru Age: 61 , mho 36%
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    Go for it. You go girl. 💕Two Hearts as one. 💕😇

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  • Static_In_The_Attic
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    Master Age: 44 , mho 40%
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    Go down to your local police station & turn yourself in.

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  • Levin
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    Master Age: 41 , mho 34%
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    1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    That's crazy.

    You should only date within 156 days of each other.

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  • bowenw
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    Master Age: 42
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    No. There are a lot of couples with much larger age gaps than than.

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  • LiamJHayden
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    Master Age: 31
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    4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I don't see it as such. I dated a 41-year-old when I was 24 and it was great till she let outsiders tell her the age gap was a problem.

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  • Staximus
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    Master Age: 49
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    Seriously? You're not in high school anymore. 5 years doesn't matter in the adult world, welcome to real life

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  • DarkLegacy
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    Yoda Age: 38
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    493 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    How on Earth do you work that out and it says 27 on your profile.

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  • OddBeMe
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    Master Age: 42
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    4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I think it’s fine. My own personal opinion it’s pushing it. But people over 20 are quite able to make their own decisions.

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  • handsomelad70
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    Yoda Age: 73
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    521 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    H**L NO !!!(I'm 70 and would date a 20-year-old broad!!!)

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  • Twalli
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    Master Age: 35
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    4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    5 year age gap is fine. Same age gap between my girlfriend and I my parents had a6year age gap.

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  • NYlatefun
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    Yoda Age: 50
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    312 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    That’s nothing in my eyes. But I’ve had 20 yr gaps lol

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  • LostSouls_
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    Xper 6 Age: 24 , mho 45%
    +1 y

    5 years is nothing. Basically the same age

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  • 4ngelic
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    897 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    not at those ages, your all good

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  • HappyWoman34
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    Explorer Age: 37 , mho 42%
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    Not at all 😊. That’s a perfect age.

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  • Bricealan
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    Master Age: 46
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    754 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Five years? What? Why too large?

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  • jahaims
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    Master Age: 34
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    6.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    You should be deciding that personally

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  • LaurenM1997
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    Yoda Age: 29
    +1 y

    No that’s fine

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  • ProbablyClueless
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    Guru Age: 33
    +1 y
    1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No. Five years is a very normal age gap.

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  • goaded
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    Master Age: 61
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    391 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Do you know the same TV series?

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  • DrPepper12
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    Master Age: 53
    +1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Not even close. Its better than fine.

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  • bobby_bush_eater
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    Xper 7 Age: 26
    +1 y
    328 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No that's pretty normal

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  • Emmytexrex
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    Xper 7 Age: 24
    +1 y

    No it's just 5years apart it's very good

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  • LiamS95
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    Yoda Age: 31
    +1 y
    476 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No that's a fairly normal difference

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  • Jerre
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    Master Age: 56
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    Not at all. Ideal ages!

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  • noohair
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    Guru Age: 72
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    2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No way. If one person is 18 the gap is 99 years.

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  • wezholt
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    Xper 4 Age: 31
    +1 y

    Not at all, my parents have an age gap of 7 years.

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  • DextroShade
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    Yoda Age: 41
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    1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Absolutely not!

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  • Iron_Man u
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    Mentor Age: 46
    +1 y
    19.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No lol

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  • pethouse
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    Xper 7 Age: 26
    +1 y

    No!!

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  • impalabill77
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    Xper 6 Age: 21
    +1 y

    No it's not.

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  • shortster
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    Master Age: 42
    +1 y
    4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Nope, too small.

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  • TallAnon
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    Master Age: 30
    +1 y
    2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Nah, that's fine

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  • Amur8711
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    Guru Age: 33
    +1 y
    530 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Na, not to much.

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  • StaceyLynne
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    Xper 1 Age: 45
    +1 y

    No!! Go for it

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