What Do You Think: "women Want To Feel Loved Before Making Love , Men Want To Make Love To Feel Loved"?

[Finchie40]

I pretty much agree with this statement, what do you think?

[Crimsyjo]

Yes I agree. It can cause breakdowns of relationships because it's a cycle that's very hard to break once your in it.

In my experience it usually starts off as happy couple. Lots of sex. Mans happy. Woman's happy. The woman feels love! She wants to show it, give to her man, nurture her man. Man receives all this giving. But instead if giving equal back he gets lazy. He sits back recieving. Woman starts feeling resentment. Feels undervalued, underappreciated. She pulls back. Her love pulls back. She don't want sex now. Man feels woman pull back, feels unloved. Feels resentment. Anger. Frustration. He pulls back. Both are now pulling back. And resenting eachother.

Both partners need to be giving and receiving. For love to bloom and cycle between the two. A one way street leads to an exit or dead end.

[Lliam]

That was very wise. 👍

[DishLady]

I don't know about that. I don’t think this sort of thing is 100% gender specific.

[Anonymous]

I think there's a bit of truth in that. I wouldn't quite be so black and white about it though. Because I have to have a connection to sleep with a woman. And there are plenty of women who sleep with guys without feeling any love for them for a myriad of reasons.

[Lottydotty]

Both can want both but either can be taught to want different things from relationships. The focus should be on their internal need. What they are missing currently

[sage2021]

You have to keep putting loving things into her emotional bank. Then when there is enough loving feelings from you stored up, then she's ready for some good lovin'.

[GeminiDiamond]

Depends on the situation. Sometimes we just want to get laid. Lol finch

[NathanDavis]

I do not usually agree with bullshit.. today is no exception

[CrabCakes11]

Most people want to feel loved before, during, and after sex

[SotiCoto]

I'm a cat. I have no idea what goes through the heads of "men".
Sounds like nonsense though.

[ginger_snap]

There's definitely something to that!

[worldscolide]

I would say its very true.

[Dongie]

Eeh, what's that, making love?

[OddBeMe]

Yeah pretty well said.

[Caroline91]

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Ai agree 100%