Isn't being 'a player' only sensible in a man's or woman's 20s?

[paledreams]

I am 30. I now feel I'm too old, agreeably, to still being a player. Remember HIMYM, episode, Barney and Ted realise being 30s isn't the same as the 20s. I also would look down on others or myself if they're 30 still thinking they're 20 or thinking they could even at 30 score a 20 chick hahaha

Yes 30 is retirement age for players/frat guys

No you're as young as you feel

Screw you

Hmmm possibly

Good on you paledreams for retiring from dating/being a player, at 30

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+1 y

I've been 30 for months now and I'm glad I ain't "a loser" like some 30s guy out there lol 😂😆 still thinking they got it at 30s plus as if they were just hitting 20 lol 😆

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+1 y

I'm quite happily "retired from playing or dating" and I enjoy single bliss

[Anonymous]

Personally yeah, I think still being a player in your 30s is embarrassing. I mean I don’t expect you to settle down, you’re still free to hook up and what not just quit playing games or intentionally playing with people’s feelings. 30 year olds can definitely still pull 20 year olds tho, just gotta be clear about your intentions. Don’t give them hope when you’re only planning to cum and dump.

(FYI I don’t consider casually dating as player behavior)

[paledreams]

Lol when should a 30s man quit trying to pump and dump 20s chicks though is the question lol 😆🤣

[Opinion Owner]

I have a friend who’s 32 and is still going after girls in their 20s lol but he’s immature for his age so he fits in better with the younger crowd. I personally think if you’re 35+ then you shouldn’t try to pull girls younger than 26+

[paledreams]

Well said. 😁🤔 I reckon I hope it's not physical shallow reasons he's trying to snag at 32 chicks who are like 22 and or 25 and more in their prime you know - lol "hey buddy stick to your own crowd lol" aka its like as bad as cheaters wanting a newer model lol 😆

[Opinion Owner]

It’s mostly bcs the women his age don’t want anything to do with his immaturity lol he vibes more with girls in their 20s bcs he still has the mental capacity of someone in his 20s lol

[paledreams]

And you'd think as I'd think some women would find that a turnoff or downgrade "unless he's just so fricking hot for 32 hahaha" looks buff 💪🏻💪🏻😅

[paledreams]

And most especially, face and buff 💪🏻

[Opinion Owner]

He is buff and very outgoing, most of the girls he met end up friend zoning him bcs he’s just very social and fun but can’t be taken seriously lol I don’t think even girls my age (late 20s) would want to date him bcs he’s just not boyfriend material. Now he’s starting to worry about finding a girl to build a relationship with tho… he’s had his days of having fun (constant hookups) and now he wants to get serious except that he can’t act serious 🙃 my friends and I are starting to get worried tbh lol

[MzAsh]

Being a player makes you look hella derpy after the age of 30. Then it’s like, grow up.

[paledreams]

Finally, someone who gets it, and a Woman, who gets it. My thoughts 100 percent 💯🙃

[edmwarrior]

I got a friend who’s still playing the field at 34 with no issues. I was also still getting women asking ME out in my early 30s. I was even forced on by a coworker who was 20. She wouldn’t take no for an answer. She would get turned on every time she saw me and made comments like she was a hungry animal. She basically always wanted to attack me. With that said, if you still got it, you got it. If you don’t, you don’t. I’m 36 now and a young clerk got stuck in my eyes. She then apologized to me. I haven’t felt that good in a while lol

[paledreams]

Yet how did these women look though 🤔💭🤔 lol 😆 - point taken , sir 🤣

[Crazyced]

To be a player you need the ability to attract the opposite gender, aka have what they are attracted to. For a lot of women, that is resources, confidence and experience and for a lot of men they are only getting these attributes in their 30s.

[paledreams]

OR - they wanna tick off a bucket list / conquest lol ♂️ + whether long term man or short term man, then 20s chicks think as you said "he may be 30-40, yet at least he drives, he's got his own private place aka lives alone and or things 20 year old college frat or college man dont have or even paid off his own car repayments yet haha" 🤩😏😉😂🤩🚗 - like you said Man, resources - ironically im 30 and don't even have any such asset - i'd rather just save for a rainy day and workaholic lol 😂😆

[paledreams]

@Crazyced and the man with resources in said position and still fit, no older than 33 still wants to have his own "I banged a 20s woman or even early 20s woman, totally hot, at 30, hell how many guys could say that" lol parody quote imagined - conquest hahahaha. That's the buzzword for 2024 man - conquest

[slatyb]

What do you mean by "player?" Do you mean lying to women, telling them you are interested in a committed relationship with them to induce them to have sex with you, then dumping them?

[paledreams]

I meant more frat guys - alpha types who just wanna play the field while still consensual and legally and just being your typical "alpha bro" bruh bruh bruh lol 🍷🍻

[slatyb]

The frat guys are hardly "alpha types". They may imagine they are, but they are far from it.

[genericname85]

lol in your thirties you can be even more of a player cause all the younger women are now extra attracted to you. unless of course you got a fat slob along the way xD that cancels out that attraction.

[paledreams]

What's the logic of 30 or 35 year old *hot buff man* versus 20 or 25 year old *hot buff man* lol me wonders out loud or aloud? Lol 😆🤣 the ladies if wiser better the 20s fitter man than the poser 35 year lol 😆

[paledreams]

Skin quality, overall health - outside looks are not inside looks lol 😆 😔

[genericname85]

because what makes women even more wet than a hot male body, is the hot male body of a man that is financially established xD perfect nest to drop your babies in. and even if they are not actively trying to make a baby that's still how attraction works.

[MzAsh]

Young, willing, and eager to please guys in their 20 are physically at their best.

[genericname85]

@MzAsh yeah but not the peak of attractiveness to the average girl. That comes way later.

[genericname85]

Cause chances are in your twenties you don't have the stability and the financial means to impress girls.

[MzAsh]

Then that’s just about the money and the lifestyle, not the man’s attractiveness.

[genericname85]

@MzAsh socio economics status is a huge part of attractiveness of men to women. Don't act as if it's not a thing. Would you rather fuck a dead beat unemployed slob? Or a guy who can financially support himself?

[MzAsh]

I don’t “fuck” anyone. It’s either serious relationship/marriage or nothing. He needs to be employed, but high status rich guys don’t jive well with my program. But that’s just me.

[genericname85]

@MzAsh he needs to make a certain income too. You won't marry a low income dude

[MzAsh]

My husband is average income

[paledreams]

I'm gonna block lol I keep getting spammed by both

[avery58]

I personally think that being a player is cringey at any age

[DishLady]

Being a player doesn’t really make sense at any age. But I’ve seen guys be players will into their 50s/60s. It’s a personality type.

[Apple1996]

No one should ever be a player regardless of age

[Dongie]

No. Young as you feel.
In my mind I'm the same as when I was in my early 30s. But my body is aged and to many fights, car wrecks and miles have taken the toll.

[paledreams]

Lol bar fights lol I imagine - nah man I feel like I'm a happy old timer in a 30s man body 👅😛

[paledreams]

I'll keep enjoying my turtle shell existence 🐢🐢🐢😁

[Dongie]

No, more like fighting to protect another. I'm the youngest of 5 and the only boy my mother had.

[paledreams]

That's what calling a cop is for and the courts lol 😆 😭😆

[Dongie]

Heh, ok.

[Dongie]

But, I must say I called a couple of times, and they refused to come.

[LazerBean]

Being promiscuous is never sensible.