Do you think it’s mean to tell a person they are not pretty or not handsome enough for the person they are currently dating?

[Anonymous]

I think it’s mean

[EmmaMary]

That's just fucking downright disgusting, disrespectful and totally beyond rude.

Is there actually morons who go around saying this?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the MHO.

[Asker]

Your welcome

[DishLady]

It’s not just mean it’s actually weird. Who tf are they to say something like that?

[OlderAndWiser]

They are already dating, so what is the point of trying to rain on somebody else's parade? That's just mean!

[Serkee]

Well clearly it's not true, if they're already dating. If it's not just a playful jab, it sounds like envy to me.

[Asker]

Well people say beauty is subjective. Like my boyfriend probably thinks I am pretty enough for him since he is the one who asked me to date him but another individual may not believe I am.

[Serkee]

Well, the other individual's opinion really doesn't matter here. The only ones that do are yours and your boyfriend's.

[RavVid]

Extremely so. I have been surprised by some married couples where the husband has aged really well and the wife has aged badly. I should tell the wife to let the husband go?

[Aubrey97]

Totally uncalled for. Even if they directly asked (also would be weird), I'd be delicate with that answer.

[msc545]

Very nasty.