He wouldn't open his mouth during french kiss?

[Anonymous]

I went on 3 dates with this guy and on the 3rd date i started kissing him. He pecked on the other 2 dates but this time i was trying to makeout with him and he wouldn't open his mouth/use tongue! What does this mean? Do i have bad breath or something lol

[Lynx122]

Some people don't like it that much :) My girlfriend also likes it but to me it doesn't feel that good. I gave myself the nickname El Chapo since I like dry kisses and chapped lips are dry. My girlfriend likes wet and sloppy kisses so we'll just figure it out together :)

[slatyb]

That's really odd. Maybe he has had no experience dating. I can't imagine. I was taught by a slightly older girl when I was 17. I still miss her.

[slatyb]

Have you asked him?

[Account]

Goddammit, sorry girl that sounds like a horrible thing to happen during a date.
If you don't exchange 80 million bacteria with the other person, what is even the point?

[Anonymous]

Are you doing this in public or private? I won’t say your breathe couldn’t drink but if you’re doing this out in the open it can be a matter of not liking public affection.

[DishLady]

So not DURING french kiss since you were unsuccessful. He's either NOT into you or has never kissed a girl that way before and didn't know wtf you were trying to do to him. Cool your jets, kid.

[Danny_dan92]

My guess is the second one

[DishLady]

@Danny_dan92 Mine too... he seems awkward...

[Danny_dan92]

Call me a “fuck boy” but in retrospect I didn’t wait three dates to kiss the girl. Usually I kissed the girl on the first or second date depending on signs she would give. Which I have a feeling she was. Afterall, if a girl agrees to go on three dates with a guy that pretty much guarantees she likes him.

[DishLady]

@Danny_dan92 I get it... but if only ONE person wants to do the kissing, there's no point in the other person giving in, you know?

I think the third date thing is ok. Tbh, I tend to suss a guy out for a while before accepting a date, so when the date comes around the kissing factor is usually available bc he's waited for me and respected my process.

[Danny_dan92]

Precisely. This is why I’ve kissed on the first date multiple times.

Especially given how many men would bombard women with advances these days on a daily basis.

All in the details that hint she wants to kiss, body language being that lol

[DishLady]

@Danny_dan92 So her guy's awkward... She'll just have to take the reins and teach him what a french kiss is... Lucky him.

[Danny_dan92]

If she’s into that 😂

[slatyb]

Presumably he's close to her age. "Never kissed a girl that way..." What the F has he been doing? I'm guessing he has no experience with women. Not sure what you mean by "cool your jets"?

[DishLady]

@slatyb 😂😂😂

[Danny_dan92]

“Cool your jets” means “calm down”

[DishLady]

Thanks @Danny_dan92 … I thought that was a common expression. Perhaps it was phased out with Twitter….

[Danny_dan92]

Kinda sad. Cool your jets is an older phrase. I’m 32 he’s 50 and the knowledge of that is flipped

[DishLady]

@Danny_dan92 It's ok. Glad you knew it.

[Danny_dan92]

Knowledge can be distributed

[SweetJoyGirl]

Maybe he doesn’t like French kissing. There are people who don’t like that.

[Danny_dan92]

Boy has no experience lol

[Booklover_90]

Maybe he doesn’t know how? 😂