Why are you shamed for simply not being attracted to a race?

[Anonymous]

I'm attracted to white men, Asians and some mixed Latinos (not too dark though). I'm not attracted to certain other races because I'm not just simply not attracted to them.

Someone from one of those races I wasn't attracted to once called me unfair for not giving him a chance. According to him I was a racist too. Why? I'm in my right to feel attracted to whoever I want to. Why are you shamed for that or even called a racist?

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I'm only guilty of simply feeling no attraction towards that guy.

[sawno]

Because a bunch of racists have to make everything about race while simultaneously saying that you can't help who you are attracted to so being gay is normal. The cognitive dissonance in their reasoning is very big on that one.

The only part of the above I agree with is that you can't help who you are attracted to, so you shouldn't be shamed for who you are attracted to. Other people have no legitimacy to shame you for it or tell you who to be attracted to, that's entirely up to you.

[Asker]

Exactly, I can't help it. If I'm not attracted to him, then I'm simply not.

[Danny_dan92]

Because people are bigoted and want everyone to love them. We all have preferences