I am certainly not ashamed that I date women of all races.
All I can say is that you will come across people who will mention that to you. Your preference is your preference. No body has a right to dictate who you should prefer to date.
I have come across women who have rejected me because of my race. It doesn't really bother me because that is their preference. I have also come across women who liked because of my race. Again it is their preference.
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I wouldn't say I'm ashamed, but I don't get what I want from women of my race. I'm an average white guy. I know, boring. I have a strong preference for black and brown women. I've dated both over the years. Compared to white women, they're smarter, kinder, more secure in who they are. Don't get me started on their sensual energy and how they look.
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I have dated women of all races except black women. I have no shame in that.
I'm more shy and embarrassed then ashamed, because I used to get shamed for it by my family many years. Indian girls aren't really mainstream and have a lot of bad stereotypes associated with them. So I was told that my attraction isn't normal and that there is something wrong with me. Everyone in my family married other Polish people. I have one who's dating a Turkish girl and a couple who dated Asian girls, and they all got a lot of crap for it. But at least Asian girls are mainstream.
After being shamed by my family, I keep my obsession with Indian girls secret in real life, and only express it online. My mom has gotten somewhat more accepting of it, and even admitted she finds some Indian girls attractive, but I'm still embarrassed about it. Occasionally she'll still shame me for it. And like you, I've been told I shouldn't like them, because they look down on White people, among other reasons. But I'll admit, it's mostly their physical attributes that I'm attracted to. Similar to you, my dream wife used to be a blonde, blue eyed, Scandinavian girl. My obsession with Indian girls only started in my late teens. And like you, I too sometimes want to back to the days where my dream girl was a blonde, blue-eyed Nordic girl. I try to force myself to be attracted to White ethnicities, and I am to some, but I can't fight the fact that I get the most turned on by Indian girls. There are brief periods where I'll read or experience something negative and "snap out of it", for lack of a better word, but I always end up being drawn back to Indian girls, within a couple weeks. And it's like I either forget those things, or they don't matter. My obsession persists even if they shun me, or treat me like trash, and even if I feel we really don't belong together, and I can't imagine any scenario in which it would work in reality. It's strange, because I don't experience this with any other race/ethnicity. Once I find a reason to hate them, that's it. But Indian girls are different for some reason. They keep pulling me back, as if they have some mystical hold over me. It's very weird. I think it may be because they possess the greatest number of attributes that I find attractive.
I'm not ashamed at all. I can't control my physical preferences and they have nothing to do with racism.
I am attracted to small women and usually gravitated to my own race. Part of the reason is cultural compatibility. But I also have a fondness for glabrous, pink and white skin and light-colored hair.
That being said, I've dated and been good friends with wonderful girls from European to Mexican to African American to Persian backgrounds. I never dated a southeast Asian girl, but it wasn't because I wouldn't want to.
There are sweet, beautiful girls all over the world.
So don't be ashamed of your preferences. They are what they are. Don't let others tell you what you "should" do.
I wish you all the best in finding the man of your dreams. :-)My preference is dating someone who is human, male and also interested in me. A good personality is a must. If he is good looking, that's a bonus. I'll take it!
I don't have a racial preference, and I firmly believe that the level of melanin in one's skin does not make someone attractive or unattractive. You are allowed to date or like whomever you want. You cannot exactly control your attraction, so you do you.
No and I'm not ashamed of many things that make me who I am. Because I have free will and I a need to be true to myself. A lot of people get so wrapped up in what they are shamed for or ashamed of, they might as well give up their free will and get a barcode tattooed on their forehead.
Embarrassing but you talk about it all the time? well you not the only indian obsessed with whiteness.
White men usually don't like Indians? I've only seen it the other way around. Actually seen a guy get turned down cause he wasn't the girls nationality. That was about 20 years ago.
I’ve never looked at someone for their race. I see a female. It’s usually the other side with their racial prejudices and it goes all way not just white people. All cultures hate each other to a certain extent
I prefer the human race...
but trust me, even if I were attracted to furries... I would not be ashamed at all, I would own it lmfao...Indian men are cute. Especially from the Navaho tribe. Also Cherokee
I wish more Indian Women would hit me up I'm a White Man also I will date outside my race. I have no shame in the race of Women I would date.
I do not think it is embarrassing. You are allowed to like what you want.
Nope, I am Oort to all races and ethnicities
I don't have one to be ashamed of. I see all people as sharing one race, human.
So I’m white and I prefer Indian girls and latinas. I never dare white girls I’m just not that attracted to most of them
Love who you want to, that is your business.
No, I don't. And I'm surprised they say things like that.
I have limitations as well and its mostly cultural reasons.
If its just a preference no, if it's a fetish meaning you only find that race sexually attractive than you should be, and ask your self why.
Nope, I don't really have a racial preference.
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