Guys, I worry he could be losing interest, what should I do?

[Lalalove11]

The thing is it's online and we do stay in contact regularly he wants to meet his year but it's obviously nothing official, yet. We have a movie night once a week and other people are invited but it usually ends up being just us. Suddenly now it seems he's being quite distant just the past couple days. I'm not sure what's the best thing to do? Should I date other guys as well in the meantime?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo girl, don't stress yourself too much over analyzing little things just yet. Online relationships can be tricky cause it's easy for feelings and interest to fluctuate more than an in-person one.

A couple days of seeming distant could just mean he's got some stuff going on in his own life distracting him. I wouldn't jump to conclusions that he's losing interest completely. When you've only been talking for a bit without making things official, guys don't feel as committed at this stage.

My advice would be keep doing your movie nights like normal for now and don't be as available if he's being more distant. Act busy with your girls or hobbies so he doesn't think you're sitting around waiting for him. Give him space but don't pull away fully either.

As for dating other guys too, you can if you wanna keep your options open, but if you really like this guy I'd maybe hold off on anything serious with others yet. Play it chill for now, see if he starts coming around more in a week or so. If he's still being weird after that then you'll know it's probably time to move on. But don't stress too quick, feel it out a bit more first!

[Iron_Man]

Take him out to a romantic candlelight dinner change things up a little bit go cruising around town, the hotspots of your hometown

[Lalalove11]

He lives far away but plans to visit this year

[Iron_Man]

Well, if you wanna make that happen, be real sweet and nice and be patient

[Lalalove11]

Good idea I'm doing my best 😊

[Iron_Man]

Good 👍