If a guy offers to pay for a babysitter when asking me on a date, is that a red flag?

[Anonymous]

[Danny_dan92]

It shows he’s responsible. What are you talking about? What you’re gonna bring your child with you on a date? He’s being what most women would consider “a provider” he’s literally trying to provide you the ability to relax for a bit from being a parent and go do adult shit.

[Asker]

I understand the gesture but as a first date wouldn't that be weird?

[Billlewis]

No, why would that make you uncomfortable? In my view, the more he pays for, the better, within reason.

[Asker]

It would be a first date, that's kinda odd

[Hannajenky]

For a first date it might be pretty weird / awkward in my opinion, but if you are in a relationship then it is completely fine and helpful actually, but I don’t have kids so this is just my random thoughts

[NamerOfStars]

Thoughtfulness and generosity are red flags now?

[Asker]

If it was a first date wouldn't that be weird?

[NamerOfStars]

A little, sure, but if he knows enough about you to know that you have kids, it's him being nice. "Weird" doesn't mean "bad".

[Desi_Butcher]

Why is that a red flag?
Ain't that good for u?

[Asker]

I think it is a kind gesture but if it was a first date wouldn't that be odd?

[Anonymous]

big red flag if you don't have kids 🫨