If a guy texts you saying "maybe we can grab coffee sometime, I'll pay for a babysitter," should you take him seriously?

[Anonymous]

I'm a single mom

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't know, Im sure it's probably not this way but it seems like he's kinda pushing them away right off the bat, has he ever met your children? Either ways this can be easily over thought and it's possible he is actually just trying to make things easier for you by helping you be more available for a date.

[Anonymous]

Awwww I hope so. I love you moms are amazing ❤️

[FreyaRed]

A joker. I doubt you go to dates with your kid even if they guy doesn't pay for babysitter.

[Asker]

Correct. I guess offering to pay for a babysitter was just a kind gesture

[Nikki1989]

No, it is a text.

[Yannae]

Ask him if it's a date. Then you'll know.

[Asker]

Does he just want sex?

[Yannae]

He just wants coffee. If he wants sex he'll bring it up.

[Asker]

Don't you think him offering to pay for a babysitter is a little too much?

[Yannae]

All truths will be revealed when you both take time in getting to know one another and when you're always direct when talking to them.

[Yannae]

A coffee in exchange for keeping my child away from harm? Too much? I wouldn't say so.

[Asker]

I understand but I thought I was supposed to handle my own child care? I thought that was a little weird that he offered that.

[Yannae]

If you question something, just ask him. A lot of overthinking and wondering can be solved by just asking the person what you want to know :)

[jahaims]

He wants those leftovers

[Asker]

What do you mean he wants leftovers?