If a guy offers to pay for a babysitter for a single mom to take her on a date, is he looking to be a provider or looking for something serious?

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Hard to say. He might just want to get laid. It would be too early to call on this one. My mind is thinking is she that gorgeous that he would want to possibly be w her. Or he doesn’t have that many options so he’s taking a chance ar what he can get. I say this because a lot of men given the choice would go after someone who doesn’t have kids. Not saying it could never happen.

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He's probably just making it possible for her to go on the date. It's a gentlemanly thing to do.

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- Asker
  
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  How can you offer that and not expect anything in return?
  
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- AviatorTom
  
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  We guys don't always want something in return, other than the company of being on the date.
  
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- WriteOn
  
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  I just said there aren't too many of you out there. I bet you have similar issues- dealing with too many offers- because we all think we have to!
  I refuse to meet any expectations I did not participant in creating. But neither do I have- to be met!
  It's about energy and connection. If it's there, the rest of the crap just won't be.
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  Thoughts- is all.
  
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Avicenna Follow
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It’s not clear why he did it. Maybe he just wanted company.

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RavVid Follow
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I expect he is looking to get laid and is willing to pay for time to have sex. In Robin William's line he knows single moms put out.

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RedInnocent69 Follow
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He’s looking to make it easier for her to say yes to a date. A sitter is an incremental cost to dinner, drinks, and a show. Who wouldn’t if you wanted to spend time with that person?

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  He didn't invite me to a dinner date, it was more of a coffee date.
  
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- RedInnocent69
  
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  Same same. Hopefully you’ll get a dinner date if the coffee goes well!
  
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bobby_bush_eater Follow
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Those 2 statements are intertwined are they not? Provider = serious no? Although serious doesn't mean provider...

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nawtee_me Follow
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I would think maybe just wanting to get to know you better and maybe sex without your child there.

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jahaims Follow
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He wants pussy. The stereotype of a single mom is they are easy to fuck.

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dudegreat91 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 34

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He could also be just looking for just a one night stand

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moneymagnet24 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 25

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Its a bribe so you welcome him by spreading your legs..🤌

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- WriteOn
  
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  Or run-
  
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LaurenM1997 Follow
Yoda Age: 29

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He’s only looking for a one night stand

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DrPepper12 Follow
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It's a kind gesture until it's not.

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- Asker
  
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  At what point can you tell if it was a disingenuous gesture?
  
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- DrPepper12
  
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  When he wants to fuck you and pulls the "I paid for your kids bs"
  
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Alex-Snow Follow
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He is just being kind

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  Do you think there is a thin line between being kind and disingenuous?
  
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- Alex-Snow
  
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  Yes and it depends on the guy
  
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He's looking to get laid, lol.

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- Asker
  
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  Even if it's an older guy?
  
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- Wise4myage
  
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  Sure.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Why would he be just trying to get laid? Especially if it's just a coffee date
  
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- Wise4myage
  
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  Because he's horny. He just be a nice guy too.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Okay would it be a bad idea to consider a date with this person?
  
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- Wise4myage
  
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  No, not at all.
  
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Anonymous
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He's looking to smash her back door in

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OddBeMe Follow
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I think he’s just helping you go on a date

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WriteOn Follow
Xper 1 Age: 57 , mho 36%

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Maybe to be kind?

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- Asker
  
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  How can you offer that and not expect anything in return?
  
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- WriteOn
  
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  Isn't the going out part what is being requested? I mean, expectations aren't requirements and asking doesn't mean the answer will be yes. Tossing money down for a sitter? Shows they understand the risks anyway- ;) Helping shouldn't be the crime- the expectation should be.
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MasterKS Follow
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looking for a good bed time story! LOL!

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Ms_Facesitter Follow
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or serious or sex.

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Cheerfull009 Follow
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Looking for sex

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  How do you know he is looking for sex?
  
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- Cheerfull009
  
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  He told me
  
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Anonymous
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Mostly sex.

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- Asker
  
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  How do you know he is looking for sex?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  He is paying for something other than the date.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Okay but how does that translate to looking for mostly sex?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  He views women as sex objects and is transactional with sex.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  https://youtu.be/adZvM19Qnb0?feature=shared
  
  This is how most guys view sex.
  
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As a single mom, what to think of a guy that offers to pay for a babysitter considering he wants to go out on a first date and it's not a dinner date?

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