How to be faithful to your girlfriend?

[daddy]

[Finchie40]

Remove selfishness for her , what you don’t want her doing to you? Needs to be the same rules for you as well. Wear her shoes before wearing your own when it comes down to decision making , when you learn to do that for your partner? It makes it easier for your partner to do that for you. Every single one of us has selfishness inside of ourselves , so if you want your partner to stand by you? You need to do the same for them, Not your way or no way mindset. If you don’t want her talking to other guys’? You need to stop talking to other girls’ if she wants to go on a girls’ trip than you go on a guys’ trip my advice is to not kiss her ass completely , Most girls hate when a guy completely kisses her ass , just respect her the way you want to be respected. Girls think differently than us guys’ do , she is with you because she is drawn to your masculine energy and your personality, you want her to look up to you not down at you. If she starts looking down at you? You are digging your own grave with that one. Be honest with her and treat her the way you want to be treated , that’s all you can really do , if she chooses to walk away , let her go and make it seem like you are completely ok without her by your side , Most girls’ love this shit , and she more than likely will come back to you if you don’t stoop down to her level. Most females love a masculine guy that makes her feel safe and protected and she loves a guy that makes her feel respected and trusting to her. Be honest with her and do not lie , Lies will get ya know where. When you are honest with her it makes it easier for her to be honest with you. Best advice I can give man

[MrOracle]

You set boundaries for yourself. You avoid places and situations where you are likely to be tempted. And you spend most of your free time with her.

It's really not that difficult. It starts with accepting that cheating is never acceptable for any reason, and will ultimately harm you if you do. There are no excuses or justifications for cheating, so don't even bother thinking about it.

If you cannot remain faithful, then break up and tell her why. Or, better, don't commit to relationships in the first place.

[beautyqueen985]

You are right on track , are you in a relationship v

[MrOracle]

Yes, for over a year at current.

[SugarSugarplum]

Faithfulness is not about her. It's about your own personal integrity. Are you a good man? Do you want to be proud of who you are?

A man with integrity would rather break up with a girl than cheat. Even a bat crazy girl deserves your faithfulness until the end.

[MrOracle]

This is absolutely true, and the corollary is that if a man doesn't have good morals and values to start with, nothing is going to keep him faithful. You cannot change other people, at most, you can change yourself, and even that is difficult for most people.

[provokeesmokee]

Communicate with honesty and transparency, respect boundaries and agreements, don't be a little bitch about being horny and not immediately being validated.

You're a 40yo grown ass man, not a toddler at the grocery checkout eyeing a candy.

[Vegasrunner]

@provokeesmokee Isn't it ironic that make standards are shamed but female standards are applauded

[hannah]

Trust and honesty are the foundation, so be open about your feelings and intentions. Spend time together and make her feel valued. If something's bothering you, talk about it directly. Avoid situations that could cause temptation or misunderstandings.

Always consider how your actions affect her. Show appreciation and support, making her feel like she’s a big part of your life. Remember, it’s not just about not cheating physically. Emotional loyalty is crucial too.

Make her feel secure in the relationship. Treat her with respect and kindness, and always the way you’d want to be treated.

[Account]

It is not rocket science.
You simply do not put your private parts inside another person. It shouldn't be that difficult.

[Account]

Shit. I just noticed your username, this is going even more downhill.

[RebelinSteel]

@Account yep right off the cliff

[Account]

@RevelinSteel At this point, I don't even know why I don't just deactivate, visiting this cesspool has become a habit, I am just hoping this app/website will eventually ⚰️ on its own. 😅

[RebelinSteel]

@Account I’m sure it is a form of self harm, just when you think it’s going to improve, a post makes you go WTF yet again.

[Account]

@RebelinSteel Indeed it is a form of self harm. This is even worse than smoking. Maybe we hate ourselves more than we thought or maybe some sick part of us finds something mildly entertaining in this cesspool

[AviatorTom]

Simple. Don't fool around with other women.

[paledreams]

Be each other's firsts as long as everyone's 18 in a relationship when they each lose their virginity to each other perfect age is 20s for each to lose it to each other having given time and dated you know 20s in my opinion is the best age - all that hogwash about "sweethearts" any earlier and I just vomit 🤮🤢 or love at first sight - lol 😅 more like take the time and wait until both 20s you know, people take time to wisen up and I'm 30 now. I definitely knew all of this by age 27 or 28 that, commitment is best with a woman who's maybe early 20s to mid 20s, so not the exact same age as me, a small gap like I just described, and yeah 👍🏻 otherwise everyone just casual sex lol and that don't last, in their 18 to 30s lol - that casual don't last hahahah 😈😋

[paledreams]

And obviously, don't settle for less, otherwise they'll always be unfaithful eyes hahaha 😂🤣 and brain hahaha 😂😂

[paledreams]

No advice 😞☑️😄

[paledreams]

* 18+ and onwards,

[RebelinSteel]

Fairly simple, respect, honesty, if you respect her and remain honest then you can’t be unfaithful. You also communicate to resolve any potential problems before they become excuses to cheat.

[Account]

Honestly, I admire your patience to give a serious answer.

[kwsmith2]

Gratitude can help. Self-exploration, but to be honest if the question is this raw for you, you might be better-off setting those terms up front. A fair number of women will go for it.

[DishLady]

You don’t need to be any sort of genius to do it… either be faithful to her or leave her tf alone to go find a guy who WILL actually be faithful to her.

[purplepoppy]

Just how hard is it to not stick your dick into someone else?

[paledreams]

@purplepoppy some people just struggle to have wandering eyes or wandering thoughts brains lol 👀 🧠 meanwhile I'm happily single at 30, no complaints here, I've never had to put up with hogwash like couples out there 😅😅😅🤮🤢

[paledreams]

@purplepoppy meanwhile back to living in my turtle shell 🐢🐚 merrily hiding from reality aka I'm happily like Matthew McConaughey in Failure to Launch, yet i do far more errands and I contribute more to the "farm" aka where I reside I do pay my rents and my bills :) unlike that character in his 2000s movie 😄👀☑️

[Vegasrunner]

@purplepoppy Very difficult that is why men who can do it are celebrated.

[Billlewis]

Lock up your penis and give her the keys... you'll be drssming of Venus while. You're down on yourbknees

[beautyqueen985]

😂😂😂
are you into bdsm , do you have a chastity cAge

[Billlewis]

@beautyqueen985 I'm into enforced celibacy, but I need to be allowed to masturbate.

[beautyqueen985]

I have no idea about that

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you have to convince yourself to not cheat, then just leave her, and let her have someone who's actually worth her time.

[Jessikaah91]

It's really not hard, if you have any love or respect for your partner you'd keep it in your pants.

[Anonymous]

It isn't difficult if you care for and about them. Happy people don't stray. Don't even think about it.

[MicahRaine]

Simple: Don't fuck another girl. Don't date another girl. Don't let your mind wander.

[jahaims]

By being mature and not going into a relationship with unresolved trauma and unhealthy coping skills

[TeatimewithCowboys]

I can’t believe this is actually a question? It’s called self-control and many 12 year olds have it down….. Pull yourself together dude. Your better than that.

[In_Trance]

If you have to ask then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
Especially at your age

[JustinTheGreat]

It shouldn’t be hard lol

[exitseven]

You live a life of honor.

[handsomelad70]

Don't brand other broads !!!

[manfromsomewhere2]

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[DontAskMePeople]

🤣👍