Losing interest, getting bored , insecurities, or ego boost are never a valid reason to cheat. Agree?

[Anonymous]

I see there are some guys who use these reasons to cheat on their love. I immediately block and stay away from such guys. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He can't be trusted. If any of these reasons made a guy cheat on his girlfriend, he is an impure and evil person who shouldn't be in a relationship with. However, he will find victims but I'm sure her life will be broken if she stays with a cheater guy. Because, a cheater is always a cheater. No excuses. If a guy have the audacity to make a girl fall in love with him, cheat on her, he is not a boyfriend material. He belongs to streets where he can find lot of girl street dogs. He can do one night stands and all the shit. He isn't a husband material. If a loyal girl stays with him and expects him to be loyal, she is spoiling her own life. Once a cheater, is always a cheater. He will find new supply continuously based on his desires and he doesn't have values to feed a family with loyalty. He is an unethical guy who is committing sins and his sins are unforgivable. If a girl stays with such sinful guy, she will become sinful too due to which she needs to bear the punishment from god for all his wrong doings. It's always best to stay away from such a guy if someone wants a good karma and good life.

It might be painful to leave such a guy if the girl is connected to him for a long time but that pain only prevails for few minutes or days but after that, she can find a more better, handsome and best guy who is a husband material and never plays with a girl's emotion.

A guy who cheats is as a joker who plays in a circus but a guy who treats a girl with value is as a king in the kingdom. Agree?

[KrakenAttackin]

I agree completely. Commitment means committing to each other through tough times as well as good times. It's easy to do the right thing when times are good. Tough times show true character.

[sirderpsalot123]

I agree

[ohsheeT]

You are right... Cheaters only cares about one thing. That is themselves.
. And then after they cheat they go home like nothing ever happened and tell the person they're with how much they love them blah blah blah blah blah so now they're a liar and a cheater...

If you feel the need to go out with somebody else while you're with somebody just break up.. . But when you go behind somebody's back and do it and then act like nothing even happened and go home and tell that other person how much you love them that's worst you.
Cheating because now you're lying
And with that lie there's no more trust and respect because you thought you were going to get away with something and they never did cheat. You get caught 99% of the time

[Asker]

Yes, after they get caught, it won't be the same for them anymore

[ohsheeT]

It's also not going to be the same for the person they cheated on.. . For me I would have to walk away

[Asker]

I'm saying about the person who got cheated on

[ohsheeT]

Oh yes I see. Well you might feel that way at the moment but believe me when you go into another relationship everything changes again and if it's a good person you will feel the beauty of that but I do understand what you're saying because even I go into a relationship nowadays and the very first thing I think of well I like this person and then I think anything in the world can happen are you willing to put everything you have into it and can you walk away from it quickly as possible if something goes wrong and not be hurt and the thing is is once you go through it if you come 10 times stronger

[Asker]

Girls stay in a relationship for longer than men because they don't want to leave. No girl likes to leave a relationship for smallest faults unless the faults are unforgivable such as cheting, etc

[Asker]

cheating, etc

[ohsheeT]

Yes I agree. .. for me it's not so much that they cheated.. it more.. that they not only cheated. But then every day they come home and look you in the eyes.. acting as if nothing happen tell you they love you act is if they are your best friend.. and the next day cheat again.. come home do the same thing over and over until they get cought. It's the lie that hurts more.. they should just say I'm not happy and leave.

[Summeroflove]

NO REASON…. Is a good reason to cheat. If you’re NOT HAPPY BREAK UP. As many dudes use this excuse many dudettes use the same ones. Nobody wants to face up to their actions. So they just make excuses to avoid being accountable for their actions at leas to themselves.

I don’t like people who cheat and many times if they will cheat on someone they claim to love. Imagine what they would do to you even not as a romantic interest. Most cheaters male or female aren’t very good people. Even if they can be charismatic. That’s how they get people.

[HawkPerception]

There is never a valid reason to cheat. If you cheat, you're a scumbag. Simple as that. If you feel like your sex life is lacking, communicate that to your partner. If you feel like there's a lack of romantic gestures and effort, communicate that to your partner. If you're bored, find some hobbies. If you're insecure, communicate that to your partner. If you're losing interest, communicate the reason why to your partner. If nothing is working for you leave them. There's literally NO reason to cheat and emotionally damage your partner. Only the worst kinds of people cheat.

[sawno]

Agree, you either work with your partner to fix it or you leave. Cheating is not the right option. That said, things get complicated when there are children involved. I have some sympathy for people who for the sake of the children try to stay together and then just end up cheating so they can have the balance of being satisfied enough and staying in a "functional" family. I just don't think its the right solution, ultimately your not going to provide the right environment if you stay in an unhappy relationship/marriage. I have seen someone do this and it basically consumed her with immense pain and suffering because she was tanking the pain of her life being like that for her child, with the only outlet being some online sexting. To me that's not something you can keep up, and eventually things will break up.

[Jessikaah91]

No, there's absolutely no reason to chest.. if you're that unhappy within your relationship you should leave be single then do whatever you want. but while you stay with your partner you should be faithful and talk about your problems then maybe things can change to make you "happier"

[Fireguy17]

There is no justification for cheating.

You made a commitment to be faithful and only doing her, or whomever she brings in for a 3 way.

If you have to doink someone else that bad, end the 1 relationship before you go doinking someone else.

Odds are it won't be as good as you thought it would be.

[blueonblack22]

The biggest issue I have with cheaters is not the incident in itself but the attitude in itself on why they did and whether or not they take accountability.

[serious]

There is never a reason to cheat. Never. If there are problems/issues, then break up is always an choice, a decision that can be taken but never cheating.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I agree. If they really were losing interest and getting bored, they would've broken up instead of cheated. Or at least I think so.

[Asker]

Break up isn't right too for these reasons. I agree that some people might lose interest later but such people should never make others fall in love with them if they aren't prepared to stay and break their trusted person's heart

[spartan55]

"if the guy have the audacity to make her fall in love with him"

What is this crap? You can't MAKE someone fall in love with you.

[Asker]

You can

[spartan55]

Not true at all. Not sure where you learned that myth.

[Asker]

If a guy doesn't let a girl know his feelings, how will she know?

[spartan55]

That has nothing to do with 'making someone fall for you'.

[Asker]

It has everything to do

[BrotherBane]

I am confused here. Are you saying that if a guy lets a girl know his feelings, then she will fall in love with him? Is that what you mean by "making someone fall for you"?

[Asker]

@BrotherBane yeah

[spartan55]

@asker But he can let a girl know his feelings all day, seven days a week. That doesn't mean she is forced to fall for him... that's absurd.

[Asker]

She is being given a choice by him to fall in love with him

[spartan55]

Exactly, so why are you wording that he is MAKING HER fall in love with him. IT'S A CHOICE.

[Asker]

But he is giving feelings to her

[BrotherBane]

I think you're quite different from other girls. So far, every girl whom I have told my feelings, didn't fall in love with me. Instead, they avoided me afterwards.

[Asker]

@BrotherBane I fall in love with a guy who tells me his feelings. But not every guy. I'm gonna stay with only one guy. I will avoid all other guys after that one guy

[BrotherBane]

Oh, you were already interested in that one guy even before he told you his feelings, that's why you said "But not every guy".

Then it wasn't really about whether a guy tells you his feelings, but which guy does it.

[Nikki1989]

They are all valid reasons. You just don't do it.

[Asker]

Not valid reasons

[genericname85]

There is no valid reason to cheat ever. Unless for some dumb reason someone is threatening to murder your family if you don't.

[Asker]

That isn't a valid reason to cheat either

[Asker]

If someone threatens, there are other ways to fight and deal. Not to cheat and leave

[genericname85]

That's just you not understanding the scenario.

[genericname85]

But either way it doesn't matter, cause it's not a realistic scenario.

[Asker]

Sometimes, it's a realistic scenario. You can watch animal movie for that. But, it's not a valid reason to cheat.

[MysteriousDarkness]

There is no justifiable reason for cheating.

[BCA6010]

There are no valid reasons to cheat, period.

[_Troian_]

It can't be a reason, just leave that person.. it's better.

[ProbablyClueless]

You are correct. Those are not valid reasons to cheat.

[clampfan101]

There is never a valid reason to cheat. That’s why it’s called cheating.

[LiamJHayden]

There are no valid reasons to cheat.

[Anonymous]

There are no valid reasons to cheat PERIOD!

[In_Trance]

Apparently they are valid reasons otherwise the guys wouldn't do it.

[Asker]

Not valid reasons

[In_Trance]

We're definitely not going to talk in circles. You asked the question and I gave you my thoughts. You don't have to like them. Cheating happens for reasons and the person on the losing end is always going to think they're invalid reasons

[Asker]

The victim is not under the losing end. The cheater is. The cheater loses his love

[In_Trance]

There are no victims. Both people contribute.

[Asker]

The one who got cheated on is the victim

[HotManPlayboy]

who stretched you

[Asker]

My thoughts about righteous view

[Phoenix98]

Agreed.

[White_Swan_]

I am undecided.

[jahaims]

Duh.

[Anonymous]

Ummm

[Jason2469]

Agree to disagree