If a guy suggested that maybe we can go do something like coffee, is he asking you out on a date?

[Anonymous]

[lornakrys]

I learned this the hard way. Yes, yes it is. Do NOT accept if not interested. This kept happening to me where I would say yes thinking it was hanging out as friends, and then realizing these guys all thought it was an indication of interest. ughh!

[Caroline91]

Only if he sets up a time and place. Otherwise, it's a "polite" way of blowing you off.

[EmmaMary]

No... He's desperately hoping for the opportunity of giving you a damn good fucking.

[Nirmroth]

Very likely but not 100% fool proof.

[Asker]

I'm honestly not sure. If he was interested why would he say "maybe"?

[Nirmroth]

That maybe is just a way to soften the blow/sentence.