What are your coping mechanisms of your 30s+ and never banged?

[paledreams]

I for one don't mind it as a reality - however I for one wonder how people with far less self-discipline master not feeling grumpy or stroppy that they didn't a) bang around in their 20s and b) their now 30s+ plus and are either single, single and fat, or single and fat and balding lol - and not just the guys, lol 😆 nah anyways back to business, I for one would've "liked to have banged in my 20s and dated" yet it seems life is like a script: it had written itself 😁👍🏻👀✅

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[SueShe]

It seems that you associate a temporary state of mind (grumpy, stroppy) with the fact that people refrain from fornicating earlier in their lives. Where do yo get this association from? Is it of your own invention or observation? Don't you think that there are a million other reasons why people are grumpy or stroppy than the lack of fornication when they were younger?

I am always amazed how quick people are to associate fornication (or lack thereof) with all kinds of ailments, health issues except for STD/STI and other physiological deficiencies with the act of fornicating. I do understand that pornography is becoming more and more important in people's lives nowadays but from there to associate the lack fornication with all evils of the earth is a little far fetched in my opinion.