Is it unfair that so many women have height preference for men when it comes to dating?

[Anonymous]

Height is something that no one can change and when a woman says she will only date men above 6 feet tall that automatically makes those shorter men undateable. I’m asking as a woman who doesn’t care for height as a trait of a man.

[Changiis07]

My boyfriend is only 5'6 I don't care too much about height and what I mean by that is I don't think I could date someone under 5 feet but my boyfriend is not that tall, but he treats me good and that's what I look for. Sometimes women focus too much on the physical than what truly matters

[Asker]

Well you have a really kind heart ❤️

[Lynx122]

I'm 6'3'' so I haven't experienced it since I was a boy. I was slower to develop than other kids so I had a rough time in high school. But there's unlimited amount of reasons for a woman to decide she doesn't like you. So you just have to focus on your life and keep moving forwards. I'm glad I'm tall because I have enough other things to worry about. But it's hard for me to know the true value of it because I just I don't know since I experienced a lot as a teenager when I was still small that still stays with me. So mentally I'm half tall and half small still lol. And it's hard to understand the value of something until you lose it. It's definitely unfair but there are a lot of unfair things in life.

[Avicenna]

It's up to people to cpme up with their own parameters for dating. If that's such a dealbreaker for them, they'll lose out on a lot of guys and be fucked and chucked by many others. I prefer dating taller women myself, but I won't let a woman's height keep me from dating her if I like her.

[avery58]

No, it's not. Race is also something no one can change and some people have racial preferences which are asked to be respected. And they should be, but I wonder why height has become a controversial topic while the other example is seen as perfectly fine, both should be. Everyone is free to their own preferences.

[Finchie40]

Everyone has their own preferences so it’s not unfair at all

[Berethor]

Is it unfair that so many men don't want to date single moms? single moms can't change being single moms. Things that can't be changed matter more, why care about something that can be changed like fake hair color. Women want only 6 feet tall men is really a thing? women just want men taller than themselves which it totally legit as men are taller than women on average, by 5 inches, so tallness is a masculine trait.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[provokeesmokee]

People who make height a big deal have major phrenology-eugenics energy, which is a huge ick.

I've dated people my height (I'm 5'1") and people much taller.

The only thing it taught me is height has ZERO relevance to how good a partner or match a person is.

[worldscolide]

I dont think it matters do as many women as you might think. There are those shit stains that say they only want someone who matches the 6's (6 feet tall, 6 figure income, and at least 6 inches long) but those are best avoided because they are doomed to become single moms and only fans models. Real good women aren't like that.

[Twalli]

It's unfair especially because the rationale is an illusion. The idea of a boyfriend as a protector is still prevalent. The illusion is that a bigger guy is a better protector. I am commonly paired with larger guys when sparring in martial arts. I can usually match them. So, not only am Ai a martial artist, I am also able to hold my own against larger opponents. So in reality I am on average a better protector than most larger guys.

[MisterWack]

I’m sure women don’t go for MUST BE 6 ‘0 to date me…

If a man’s character & personality shines as bright as his smile in her eyes of the beholder, he’ll pass the love pop quiz with flying colors in her soul.

[EmmaMary]

FORUM WARNING

Guy in Disguise

[Asker]

I’m not? 😂. I don’t understand why other women get so mad when I bring this up.

[Nikki1989]

@EmmaMary So obvious, isn't it?

[Asker]

Nikki has a trans looking face. That is the real male. 🤮

[Agape93]

No, its ok to have a preference. If someone doesn't match what you want, then sucks to be you. Humans judge everyone around them without exception.

[Apple1996]

Nah its at least a preference that is something permanent. It's more silly to a weight preference when that can easily change

[Anonymous]

Yawn, another man's fake profile to complain about something only a man would complain about. Sucks you're short. Everyone is allowed to like what they want.

[Asker]

I’m definitely not a man but it doesn’t surprise me you turned on anon to reply like this. If you are only selecting tall men to date then that makes you a shallow person. You are missing out on so many kind souls all because you have a stupid restriction.

[PeachyPie93]

I don't think it is an actual issue, since I feel like men dodge a bullet on super shallow women that way.

[Nikki1989]

Nice try. You are another bitter male, obviously.

[Asker]

I’m a woman and you love obnoxious gym bro types. It’s ok you can’t change what your immature brain likes.

[Anonymous]

it isn't the height. it's the attitude attached to the height.

[Asker]

Really? Because most tall men I know are immature compared to the shorter ones.

[Opinion Owner]

Humans are imperfect and often dwell on imperfections.

[Asker]

Yeah. So naturally the worst type of men draw the attention from all the women.

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't say that. Everyone is looking to be happy. Some just go about it the wrong way.

[Unit1]

I don't want to have a girlfriend, that says "he must be 6+ feet tall" or "he must be tall". I rather blow my cum into a paper towel or on a courtesan out of principle.

[Yannae]

No, if she doesn't give me a chance she'll never know what she'll miss out on besides height. Her loss. I have a height preference too. I like my women tall.

[Drewtate]

Yes. Life is unfair. Is it fair that men have an age and weight preference?

[LazerBean]

No, dude, it's not unfair because it's not reality.

[LiamJHayden]

People are entitled to their preferences irrespective of however unfair or absurd they might seem to others.

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'9 and I've managed to find three women willing to give me a chance. Some women will only date men above 5 feet, but the only person that affects is them. If they want to make their dating pool small, more power to them.

[genericname85]

it's only unfair if they're not ok with men having a boob size preference.

[Pohjolan]

Its is but the genetic lottery is unfair by default.

Also being over 6 feet tall is just one deal breaker less.

[Nirmroth]

Just use your normal account bro

[convo_king89]

Well guys have boob size preference.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. People are entitled to their preferences.

[jahaims]

No lol