Is it true that beautiful women don't get treated right by guys? Why is that?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am a beautiful woman and I have not been treated well by men at all. I was really naive before and thought be kind and caring was a good way but men don't respect kind women. They only respect the women who make them suffer but say the opposite.

As a beautiful woman, they don't care abut you much as a person. Just want bragging rights.

If you are also charismatic and attractive (not a given with beauty) they get envious of you and want to make you suffer because they get insecure.

They feel too many guys give you attention so no one wants to commit to you even if it's obvious you're loyal and authentic.

They have no issue abut lying and saying anything because you're an object to them for ego validation. They go in with intention of doing so and dumping you. The worst is when they brag about how they duped you with their friends and you hear through the grapevine you were a big joke to them and you were starting to love them.

Men think it's no big deal to trample all over a beautiful woman's heart because she seems blessed.

So we aren't stuck up if we don't entertain most men's advances, we have just seen their ugliest most predatory sides.

I still don't hate men but they don't seem to want to treat me well for some reason so, I'm focused on me and what makes me happy.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

The beauty factor can be distracting.

There are also a bunch of "knock them down a peg so they're at my level" kind of behaviors that I personally have had to deal with and are no fun. A guy should be confident enough in himself not to take out his insecurities on his girl.

Love is about two hearts and souls coming together... not about clashing egos and the exchange of toxic behaviors... If two people can't form a safe space in which to mutually love one another then they shouldn't be together.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not completely true , but to a certain extent it can be true , there are a majority of beautiful girls’ that do , mainly because she chose to fall for a guy that is controlling and manipulative to her , she is drawn to the bad boy type , which a lot of girls’ are drawn to , Most females’ like being with a guy that tells her what to do , it’s in her nature to be submissive to her man , sadly, she is drawn to this , because she more than likely is insecure, and has low self esteem about herself , she doesn’t feel like she deserves to be with a nice guy. Sadly Most females’ do not like guys’ that kiss her ass at all times , she is drawn to a guy that pretty much keeps her on her toes that doesn’t tolerate her shit. , she more than likely has Daddy issues. Meaning , she didn’t really have a father guiding her as she was growing up , so she is turned on by the dominance of a guy that treats her like shit.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Beautiful women get treated much better in most situations by society in general. When it comes to relationships, her beauty doesn't really matter. What matters the most in how she is treated is what kind of man she chooses.

A lot of women today do not pick men based on his morals and values - they often make no effort to find out, and only discover later, when it's already too late, that they chose poorly.

A whole lot of women are drawn to bad boys. Their chaos is exciting and they often have status, but they are usually selfish and self centered and have lousy morals. If that's what you pick, that's what you are going to get.

The women who DO take the time and effort to vet their potential partners and choose partners based on their morals and values almost never have this problem.

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

Whatever you are referring to is probably pretty girls chasing the bad boys. Beautiful women get treated terribly by  other women , actually.

HawkPerception · Answer

I would say that's false. I would say that attractive people tend to be attracted to "elites" of the same kind. The most attractive girls, especially early on in their years go for the player guys because they're physically attractive and have "game". And those guys tend to have a correlation with shittier personalities that treat those girls badly. And then the cycle continues (attractive shallow people try to get with attractive shallow people --> ASP increase body counts while ignoring all the good people --> ASP ends up hating all of the opposite gender thinking they all just want sex and treats them badly/sees no point in relationships anymore --> more unhappy singles in the world)

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Guys in general or the guys they choose? 80/20 rule. Just saying. You're picking them and that's not men's fault. Yo look...

These bitches are picking guys that are way better than them and then wondering why they don't settle down with them. Should we blame the guys or the girls for this interaction?

I don't care... I'm getting pussy, but I throw you fuckers out the window like it's nothing... you choose me. Why not them...80% sitting there... Just my dick though is all that's good apparently.

Is it true that beautiful women don't get treated right by guys? Why is that?

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on the dudes she’s picking…. If she picks douche bags, losers, etc. Then… She’s choosing those dudes and sone of these women maybe look good outside but aren’t the best people. Let them waste each other’s time.

There are other times where a guy pretends to be someone he’s not lusting after her beauty. It’s really the same way with women who choose men and flatter them.

It’s why hardworking men who work until their bones ache…. Come home to the most naggy horrible wives you will ever meet. And you wonder. Why do these men pick these women?

It’s sort of the same question

Dongie · Answer

Yeah, I had this girl I worked with 30 years ago. She being a perfect 10 inside and out. She took an instant dislike of me because I couldn't keep my eyes off her. She told me to stop staring without looking up. I said I was sorry and would it be OK if I looked every now and then as she was so beautiful. She said nothing. Within 3 months we were friends and she would talk to me how this guy then that guy treated her badly. I told her it was their way of keeping her clueless as to the catch that she was. I also offered to kick their ass for her. I was good back then. I always had her laughing but I was well beneath her league. But so we're the thugs she picked out.

Alli112 · Answer

I mean, beauty definitely can make a person more of a target for people who are vain, narcissistic, etc (ex. people who just want a partner who will make them look good) Beyond that, I think they're about as likely to be mistreated by as anyone. It definitely doesn't stop anyone from hurting you 🤷‍♀️

alice55 · Answer

Women get treated depending on how they act / dress not how pretty they are, if she's pretty but dress slutty and have ons she won't get treated right, she wold only been seen as a fun girlfriend not marriage material but if she's pretty and modest, shy, nice she would get treated nicely.

How you get treated depend more on our behavior than how pretty you're.

Anonymous · Answer

Well they often get treated better then most by most. But they also get treated worse by some i. e. aggressive asshole men and jealous women.

It’s really sad how many attractive young women fall for asshole men. Reason being is the asshole stands out to them compared to everyone else kissing their asses.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Pretty women get more attention, they get more leeway, men overlook a lot of things they do that we wouldn’t w other men or even other women who aren’t as good looking. More than likely it’s her choice of men she picks that aren’t treating her right.

sawno · Answer

I don't think thats true, but they do have the opposite problem. Guys go out of their way for a beautiful girl, its instinct to try to win her over. This makes it much harder for the beautiful girl to see who the genuinely good guys are.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Individuals allow for how others treat them. If the woman is predisposed to abuse it's easier for them to fall into destructive patterns.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not true. Beautiful women get treated the same as other women by men. But as with others, it depends on what man they choose. Many women, especially today, choose poorly, based on the wrong factors.

I'll add that in general it is other women, not men, who treat beautiful women badly.

Anonymous · Answer

Because beautiful women generally choose beautiful guys and those guys have MANY options.

It works the same with beautiful women though. Beautiful women have many options. So these women generally aren't loyal to ANYONE. Because they don't need to be.

WhitneySnow · Answer

A lot of women don’t get treated right by guys. Has more to do with picking the wrong guys than how beautiful you are.

AGメtheloneWOLF · Answer

Not entirely true

It has nothing to do with women being beautiful if guy treat them wrong cuz

1. Maybe guy just dick with whole lot insecurities ,

2. Maybe woman using her beautiful charms time to time (possibly will not be treated right by her men )

But Sure beautiful women do get treated differently (right by guys ) in general but so the handsome men ,,, we human like beautiful things and people and animals

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I've seen beautiful women get both treatments from men.

When they get the bad treatment, it's because they get surrounded by people vindictive and manipulative people who want to try and get something over on the hottie.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

I don't think that's true. We get free stuffs everytime... kiddinggg..

paledreams · Answer

Take for granted, some people are just weird in the brain 🧠 I think 🙀🤔 anyways for one I am a humble soul

Maxiebleu · Answer

Pretty women with caring hearts are the one who get mistreated the most.

laly520 · Answer

nope, beauty doesn't determine how women r treated it depends on individual attitudes n values

Vegasrunner · Answer

What? The more beautiful a woman is the better she's treated by men. Beauty is a woman's most important agency and determines her societal value

DarkLegacy · Answer

It is the other way round. Men let them get away with murder

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Women don’t get treated right by guys that lack a healthy moral and ethical compass

DrPepper12 · Answer

They won't even get approached. Many guys think that she's out of their league or taken.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

we are treated as we let others treat us...

Kaizer000 · Answer

Yes it's true. Depends on how they look though. A lot of "beautiful" girls get pumped and dumped and end up depressed.

standardguy · Answer

Perhaps beatiful women attract superficial men who see women as an object

msc545 · Answer

It is just as true as the fact that men don't get treated well by beautiful women.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

It's all about being around decent men and they will treat people right.

rapfan107 · Answer

Well a lot guys just see them as objects and they just want to sleep with them and don't get the right treatment

Anonymous · Answer

Because most Girls are Attracted to Confidence, Most Confident Guys are Narcisist or at least have Narcissistic Tendencies.

Anonymous · Answer

I get treated good by tall guys. Short guy traumatize me.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

It's not true. Why? Because it's generalization.

worldscolide · Answer

beauty has nothing to do with it.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think that's true.

Anonymous · Answer

people will treat you how you treat them

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

I agree with @dishlady

noohair · Answer

What are you talking about?

In_Trance · Answer

No it's not true

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