My boyfriend/BD physically abused me. I got a job but I got eviction on my record so I can't get my own place. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh sis, I'm so sorry you're going through this. The most important thing is that you get to a safe place. Even if it means couch surfing for a bit, don't stay where he can hurt you again.

Is there a domestic violence shelter near you? They may be able to help with emergency housing and other resources like counseling. Or what about friends or family you could explain the situation to - even temporarily? I know it's not ideal but your safety comes first.

As for the job and housing, don't get discouraged. Explain your situation honestly to potential landlords - many will understand. Look into low income housing programs too. And your current job might have an EAP (employee assistance program) with counselors who can advise next steps.

You've got this - you're so strong to leave that abuse. Lean on your support system. Maybe even see a lawyer about options like filing a restraining order. Sending hugs girl, focus on healing. This is just a bump in the road; you've got your whole life ahead still. Feel free to message me if you need any other help or someone to talk to, okay? You've got this!

[Danny_dan92]

Find a friend or family that is willing to take you in..




In the meantime work on improving your credit

[jennifer_bloom]

Evictions do not appear on your record. And you claim to have a degree in law, was that a lie? Just like the lie you told about me sleeping with 200 guys and getting pregnant twice with strangers to collect child support money when you said I own $20,000 Chanel bags from my parents restaurant business?

[DishLady]

There should be a local Women’s Clinic to report this and get help. Legal Aid should pitch in to help also.

[Nikki1989]

Find shared accommodation. Move in with friends.