Go to the bank and get your money, and take his too for being a douchebag, and call the cops and get a restraining order. They'll take him out of your house too if he doesn't want to leave.
If you don't know his bank passcode it's time to start using your brain more. He did not get you into this situation you got yourself into this situation. Get him drunk, be sexual and tease him if you must, anything to get his bank info. I assume people will trll you to call the cops first but doing that will not get you more money it is in HIS bank account and now it's rightfully his.
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look i'm sorry he's abusive but you are creating your own hell
call the police on him
don't give him your money.
get a restraining order on him AND KICK HIM OUT
you can control this situation. you are making yourself a victim when you absolutely don't need to be. press charges, have a restraining order put on him and move on with your life
Document the abuse and file for a restraining order. Then request a police presence to escorts him from the home. Unfortunately, that doesn't guarantee your safety as he might just ignore the restraining order and kicking him out like that makes me fear that he might even try to kill you...
I understand that you want to keep your home, but if you want to get away from this man (and you should) your safety is the ONLY thing that really and truly matters and it must come first.
Best of luck to you. I hope you get away safely.
talk to a lawyer. they can help you the best. police may or may not care and really don't even want to deal with domestic disputes most of the time. a lawyer is your best bet to get things done. I'd also suggest you move somewhere that he won't know where you're living. abusing people can become violent to the point of actually putting your life in serious danger. don't risk it over an apartment. you can get out of your lease for this immediately.
Call the police... please you don't want to be another statistics. Change all your locks phone numbers bank accounts and anything else he has access to. Let your family and friends know what's going on and make sure there are people around you when you are with him
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Depending on where you live, I would call the Abuse Hot Line, or whatever it is called. Check with the Police, Chamber of Commerce, Clergy, City Hall, to find it. And have a plan before you make any moves. There are ways out, but you have to be smart to get there.
He won't let you get a bank account? How does he prevent it?
Have witnesses and video. When he goes out change the locks. If he breaks in call 911.
If he hits you, shoot him until he stops hitting you.Break up with him, and have the police remove him if he refuses to go. Consider getting a restraining order.
Tell the police and get an restraining order on him do you have any family who could help you?
there's plenty of things you can do. But it seems you're the one who allowed the situation to get this far. You can get a restraining order. You can call trusted family member to protect you. You dont have to be a victim
why is he in control of your money? he has a monopoly on your life, he is like a parasite on a host. the longer his lasts the more difficult its gonna be to get rid of him.
you call 911, tell them you have someone who is criminally trespassing on your property, once he is removed, you file a TRO against him, then you sue him civilly for all he is worth. and he will be going back to jail because he seems dumb enough
If his name isn't on the lease, call the police, they'll drag his ass out.
Call police. Start eviction proceedings on him. Talk to your apartment manager on how to get him out. You need to go somewhere safe in the meantime. Get a restraining order on him, which will keep him out of your apartment.
Tell him you'll call the cops if he doesn't leave, and make it clear to him that he isn't your boyfriend anymore.
LAWYER HUN get a lawyer and tell him whats going on
Send him looking at concrete again
Do you own the house? Whos name is on the mortgage/lease? If you're just renting you should just leave and let him sort it out.
Call the fucking cops
He's NEVER going to change, just call the cops.
Show him his place. Hire a lawsuit.
Get a restraining order.
Why can't I get laid when guys like this can?
restraining order?
Call the police.
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