Attractive girls, how do you separate the good guys from the bad guys?

[sawno]

This question is for all the girls who are attractive enough to where guys approach you with the intent for sex / where men go out of their way to be nice to you even if they normally aren't. How do you find out who genuinely is a good guy?

I have some idea's on how I'd approach it, but I can imagine it can be come really difficult to tell especially at first and I have no idea what the ratio of bad guys approaching you versus good guys approaching you is.

So how do you prevent yourself from getting used?

[SueShe]

Any guy that approaches a girl, regardless whether she is pretty or not does ultimately approach her for sex. No buts or ifs.

What happens if a total stranger approaches a girl? He will start to flirt with her because he is certainly not approaching her to ask for the time of the day since everyone has a smartphone to check the time.

The definition of flirting is:

"a sexual behavior involving spoken or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person".

Now, we all know what a "deeper relationship" means, right?

If given the chance, his ultimate goal will definitely to attempt to be sexual with the victim. There is no such thing as a good guy or a bad guy when it comes to approaching a total stranger. Never! Ultimately, there is always a bad intention.

[sawno]

None of the guys would approach her hoping to get a long term relationship out of it?

[SueShe]

Let me just say that much. I absolutely abhor it when men approach me uninvited because I am aware what their intentions are.

It is a real plague for any woman to be constantly being approached for objectification.

[sawno]

What would you recommend instead for men who don't have women around in for example their day jobs?

[SueShe]

That is why hookup sites have been created for desperate people to try to find each other. By hookup sites, I talking about dating sites of course.

[Bethany22]

I recommend that they watch to see how friendly they are to less attractive girls or old ladies.

[IslaTheWitch]

I take my time... I'm not in a hurry... it beautifully filters all idiots :D

[sawno]

Definitely sounds effective, and then write them off based on how much pressure you get?

[IslaTheWitch]

pressure, or how they treat other people, or many other factors... I frequent the same places... I know some people there only because I see them sometimes. After a few months I can say this man is an alcoholic, that hooks up with every new girl, that likes to flirt, other has an exhausting job and always comes with a friend... sometimes are interesting ones... but when you get to know them closer... something pops up :D

[libralove]

The one with manners
A sense of humor
A good bit of Doberman personality