Genuinely good guy vs bad boy: who gets the girl?

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ObscuredBeyond · Accepted Answer

They choose whoever can secure a 2-story house sooner, so she can fill it with crap from the mall. And only sometimes thank him with sex, without fear of in-laws walking in on her. Because nobody likes that.

If the bad boy somehow does it first, she'll take her chances. If the really good guy manages, she'll take him, even if he has the personality of a sheet of plywood.

The bad boy needn't fear. If he can't secure that woman, there's always the ratchet skanks. Dangle some CBD in front of them like yarn, and the kitty will follow you home to keep playing with the yarn. If low, you can hold her over with some Marlboro Menthol 100s.

Now, if you're a younger, hipper, thinner version of Maurice from Disney's Beauty and the Beast? Enjoy loneliness. The nice ladies won't notice you exist. The ratchets will either friendzone you, or try to accuse you of rape just for being within 500 feet of them. The Asians who like you will be forbidden by their families from committing to you, and you'll be cockblocked. Or shut down from contact by others, even if you're content with the friendzone, as even that is treated as going too far.

You'll be happy for any female attention that isn't a psycho feminist, as they see you exist and then dedicate their lives to bullying and harassment, just to destroy you. Worse: the minute you fight back, because you have rights too, dammit, they label you an "incel," as if you'd even want sex from someone who is as much a jackass as her.

Worse yet: society expects you to be a good little doormat and take the abuse. Defend yourself, and you're automagically the bad guy. Not even a "bad boy" of the mythical variety women fawn over, the chiseled muscle piece with cig in mouth, leather jacket, and cliche motorcycle. No. You're John Wayne Gacy, no questions asked. Because anything else, would require thinking. And female NPCs hate that.

The guilty parties know who they are. It's why they hated the 2019 Joker movie so much. It points directly at them the blame they deserve for any real-life Jokers they may have created, foreshadowing that their guilt won't escape God's notice either, and that they are only fooling themselves if they tell themselves the contrary. Every torment in spite you visit on a modern Maurice, is another degree hotter the hellfire awaiting you, She-Frollos! And all your schemes, will only dig you a deeper hole!

That's not to say there are no good women left. But it's like trying to find a decent short wave radio station when you live in a broadcast dead zone. Don't place all your eggs in POF's basket. You will regret it.

Derek59987 · Accepted Answer

Bad boy because he hits on 10+ times as many girls as the good guy. Nice guys need to realize that it's less about becoming more attractive and more about showing your lust and desires to girls.

claryy · Accepted Answer

Bad boys are the one who gets the gilr, but the good boy are able to keep the girl.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

Good guys get the good woman. Bad boys get the gutter rats.

MCheetah · Answer

Bad boy. Girls CLAIM to want the good guy, but never choose them in reality. And no, IDGAF what people think about my answer. They're full of sh*t. I knew so many men in my life that seemed like genuinely good, kind, caring, compassionate, worthy males, and they were just as single as I am. They ALL were under six feet tall (around my height, 5'8" to 5'11") and "average looking." They had a "medium" level of confidence, unlike me. They were what you would call "decent everyday guys." Single AF. At least I know why my short, ugly, dark, overweight ass is single. For these men, the. Personality was there, but being only a 5 or 6 out of 10, they stood no chance in hell.

So no. Despite people's virtual signaling bullsh*t, the confident bad boy is the one who ends up with the girl, and later divorcing her in her thirties. People like to deny this cause they're full of sh*t. It's true, though. "Alpha f*cks, beta bucks." (Not that they're even "betas" or anything, but the saying is still there.)

Hypnos0929 · Answer

Real talk:
It lowkey depends on the woman but the "bad boy" will probably have a better shot. A lot of women find rebellion attractive and dislike guys who they feel they can control. Women want to feel attractive and attracted to someone, many want a flood of emotions, many love the mystery, many want to wonder (if that makes sense).

With that said it's not necessarily women at fault, if you're always looking up to her she's eventually going to find a reason to look down on you regardless of how you treat her. If you constantly make her feel like she can do better she's going to try to, and even if she fails you/she can't go back. You'll always know she tried, and she'll always know you came back. I fell into that trap once, still haven't forgiven myself but I have forgiven her.
If you're a good guy then treat her well but don't treat her like the best thing since sliced bread. If you can't step back and walk away you NEED to step back and walk away, at least for a bit.

Anonymous · Answer

Talk is cheap.

While it’s true that most women want a good man it’s also even more true they make sexual decisions based on their emotions and what excites them vs what is right thing to do or not do.

Most women don’t want to be mistreated. But they do like challenge and excitement. Although I’ve been a good guy for most of my life but I have had a few bad boy moments. There were several times I could of taken things a step further but I didn’t.

I remember talking to a braidsmaid at a friends wedding (cutest girl there). I invited her to the after party while holding her hand. She gushed and said “tempting…but I have a bf” but she kept looking into my eyes while her body melted when she said it. She WANTED me to keep pushing it and I could of easily made out with her (and more) if I kept my charm up.

But instead I said “oh I respect that you have a bf”. I gave her a hug and walked away. But I could see was starving for a mr. right now bad boy. I could of been that guy but my conscience told me otherwise.

It’s just that deep lust women have for excitement. Yes everyone has it. But they seem to have it much worse than vice versa. If they want to indulge it fine. But they are not “victims” of the outcome. If that girl consensually had sex with me that night than it would be on her to deal with consequences of cheating. But that’s were too many women don’t own up to their crap.

ZackBan · Answer

To answer your update: every single one of those girls would take a bad boy in a heartbeat if you actually think a good guy finishes anywhere before last you're the one who is clueless.

I'm not trying to attack you or start something but I don't want you to waste your life deluding yourself into thinking that being good, good things will hapen to you.
Being a bad boy does not mean being disrespectful or degrading. It means owning who you are and not trying to play the hero or the victim instead accepting that you are human with human desires, when you're with a girl she knows you like her and you shouldn't pretend you don't or try to hide it but instead act according to your feelings and make her feel like you know what you want and that you'll get it.
This comes off mostly as what people call a bad boy but it's way more attractive than being a self righteous whimp waiting for thunder to strike your love into her heart.

Anonymous · Answer

Bad boys are for girls who don’t value themselves or aren’t serious or look at a guy who seems challenging or just inexperienced. Good guys are the guys to get married to who cares about her and bettering his life. Bad boys are immature and although they may have money or their own place, they most likely waste their money on “guys trips”, different, parties, alcohol, high end clothes, expensive cars. While the good guy wants to invest in a family for the future. That’s how I look at it, but some guy or girl is going to read this and think WRONG! WRONG! WRONG!

mobiusforniner · Answer

The bad guy is a misconception. Sure, there are those girls who go for total assholes, but most dont. And most "good guys" are in all reality are insecure, lacking confidence, borderline creepers who claim to be good guys because they "care" about a woman. I was there myself, thinking i was a good guys and guess what? It didn't get me anywhere. Being attractive and having "game" means being confident in yourself, a its a man who can make decisions and stick with them, a man who has his shit together, knows who he is and where he is going. Ascertive but smooth. Easy to forgive others and forget. A gentleman, not a whiny man child. Those kind of men of course blow the average "good guy" out of the water, and so these good guys have nothing better to do but blame women for falling for "bad guys". Kind of pathetic, actually.

Anonymous · Answer

If you are interested in kids/teenage girls-why would you like a kid🙃 anyway-then dont complain about girls liking badboys because our brain is developing till in our early 20s till mid 20s which affect our maturity and personality.
However, if you like mature girls, date girls your age or older. If bad boys get girls, how is my current boyfriend ain't virgin. He seriously get used for sex by girls. Every girl left him after having sex with him or kissing him. He ask these girls to be his future wife but they just leave him because these girls were young and immature
I thought he is a player but he is actually very nice to and agreed to wait with me till marriage. Before you think he cheats on me, then how? He is giving all his attention to me and he can't have time for cheating. I have acces to his mobile phone etc.
So where tf are the virgin guys? Even the ugly guys in my environment is a whore.

PinkLady21 · Answer

It depends what you mean by good guy, the amount of times I’ve heard guys claim to be the good guy when really they end up being just plain strange, too self conscious or paranoid… if by bad guy you mean confident, a tad cocky and good in bed then it’s going to be the bad guy…. But if by good guy you mean he’s confident and can also treat a decent woman like a queen then I’d say the good guy.

Anonymous · Answer

"As expected most girls actually want the good guy and most guys are cluless about it."

As expected, there are still naïve guys who take what women say they want at face value rather than observing their behavior to get the facts.

Here are the facts. Women "like" good guys but bad boys make their panties wet. Good guys are always a compromise. Most women will go for the so called bad boys until they are ready to make that compromise and settle down with a guy who will pay the bills and stick around to be a good father, but chances are he won't be the guy they dream about.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Any guy that calls himself a good guy is not a good guy. Any good person would never have to say that. And I don't know what you consider as a good or bad guy this is vague. Anyway I would go for the man who is financial set, educated, good-looking, traditional, treats me like a lady, honest, respectful, loving and loyal. Can cook and clean. Well dressed groom ans smells good.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on the age at 20s they go for bad boys and slut phase according to them it build character that's on paper on fact they that phase create a whore. Anyway later at their 30s they want the good one who provides

If she spent her prime on the cock carousel why would a guy That have some value would be with ex cock carousel rider ! The cock carousel have it's impact on them the more body count the more bitch she's the less pair she have the easier she can get rid of her man they monkey Branch.

Guys save your resources and keep and eye on them it's treasure for some chameleon out there. Oh I forgot to mention women needs oxygen I mean attention, attention worth cash. Welcome to 2021

Peace

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

The well-adjusted, mentally healthy one. Met plenty of "good boys" who would see nothing wrong with date rape, and plenty of "bad boys" who aren't actually badass. The authentic one gets my vote.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know any genuinely good guys with normal social skills who does not have a girlfriend if he wants it.. that says a lot to me. I see a lot of bad boys also getting some, but they are just using girls, so normally not for very long.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

There is a misconception here.
In my experience, girls will rarely (if ever) admit to it but deep down they want a bad boy that they and ONLY they can control. In other words, as long as he isn't bad to her and always remains exciting without ever getting caught, she's happy.

serious · Answer

My answer would be.

Nice guy to begin with but in the end it is either the " GOOD GUY" or the " BAD BOY" either one of them will eventually get the woman.

By good guy I mean a guy who is only good enough and not nice, not 100% nice.

YollyM · Answer

For me genuine guy❤️ . I find bad boys shallow and emature , can't even have a meaningful conversation with them🙄

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

A genuinely good guy all the way, I’m not falling for some bad boy who probably belongs in a Wattpad fanfiction😂😂

dustybiker · Answer

There is a helluva lot more to a person than a “good” or “bad” label. I’ve met some great men that could be categorized either: equal fun, risk and dare, caring, thoughtful… Those lovely middle men that tick far more boxes.

Weater67 · Answer

10 times out of 10 it will be the bad boy.

If that is not the case why do women always talk about how terrible their exes are? What? They couldn’t find one nice guy and stick with him? No way. Bad boys always win and that is everybody’s dirty little secret we never talk about in public.

I’ve been a nice guy for 50 years and women literally are repulsed by men being nice.

wtf636 · Answer

Depends. How old is she?
16- 28 The bad boy usually. But then they get bitter cause they fuck around, so...
28 - & up. The good guy. As long as he has shit together, but I assume it is part of being a good guy.

fonduegirl · Answer

It depends. - who's more financially stable - who's more mature- who can show her to places- who's better looking- who loves her more than anything- who's got the charmEtc.

Rachelspiks · Answer

Someone who is genuinely good, of course. Why would anyone want someone who is bad? That makes no sense.

rienna888 · Answer

The good guys get the better girls. Usually the bad guys will attract bad girls because they have the same morals. So in the long run, the good guys have it better.

charlean · Answer

I’d be lying if I said the bad boy didn’t initially catch my eye the most, but in the bigger picture, I’d go for the good guy

InsertNameHerex · Answer

*genuinely* good guy, they have to be genuine lmao not some ulterior motive or whatever. Bad boys are fun in movies and stories and whatever, but in real life, good guy all the way.

GoldenAxer · Answer

By genuinely good guy, do you mean like a leader of the pack type? A valued member of his community, loved ones, strong, a great reputation, beloved by many, this sort of stuff?

MountAverage · Answer

Bad boys might get the girl, but good guys get the woman. Maturity makes all the difference.

But actually, what's this "bad boy / good guy" nonsense supposed to mean anyway? Who gets to decide who's bad and who's good? It's so subjective.

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

Unless she is a complete moron (which does exist, and is unrelated to looking good/hot/sexy, or even cute - or not) - the genuinely good guy, for sure.

The trouble with g. good guys is that those are in fact the original 'nice guys' - but manipulative scum pretended to be the nice guys and gave it a bad rep, and some girls who got rejected by the good guys started throwing mud at them for vengeance.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Could go either way but the bad boys likely to fuck things up which means the good guy wins in the end anyway

Anonymous · Answer

If she's currently being a ho, the bad boy gets her. She knows what he's after and that he'll bail when he gets it, which let's her play the victim when it's all said and done.

If she's trying to be in a solid relationship, the nice guy will get her for a while, but she'll get bored because he offers no excitement. He's too much of a puppydog and is scared of making her mad.

Both of these are boys pretending to be men. The man who gets the girl and keeps her is the man who knows his own value and the value of his time and freedom. He does his own thing, pursues his own interests and goals, and he's a nice guy to those who deserve it, but a complete asshole to anyone who crosses him.

Browneye57 · Answer

Girls want to be challenged, entertained, humored, fucked well. It really has nothing to do with bad or good. Quit trying to be nice - they simply see it as you trying to worm your way into their panties. Just be a REAL MAN, do the work, make a shit-ton of dough, and the girls will pursue YOU.
And never forget, YOU ARE THE PRIZE. So start acting like it.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Honest answer? Whoever is cuter, more stable in life, and has more interests in common with the girl

Liyz_ · Answer

Personal opinion - you may disagree with but please do not attack me for it
The good guy may very well sacrifice you for the 'greater good' - parental expectations, shaky long-dist relationship etc, but the bad boys would rather let the world crash and burn then let you get hurt. Call it selfishness maybe, but from the girl's POV I would rather have the 'bad' boy.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I guess those people who believe that girls like bad guys are just looking for excuses to be bad themselves because they want to be. And that includes girls saying they want bad guys excusing herself to be a bitch.

NathanDavis · Answer

I can only speak by experience... the score so far is 6 - 0   and I'm not bad nor a boy...

Anonymous · Answer

Like it or not Bad guys are the ones who will get any girl they want!!!

Believe it or not Good guys mostly end with those girls later - once the girl has enjoyed her adventure with the bad guys and now just looking for marriage and settlement and guys with good bank balance.

This is the story of life - some will agree some will not but this the fact!!!

Anonymous · Answer

Most girls "say" they want a "good guy." Then the vast majority of girls either reject the good guy outright, or cheat on them with the bad boy. The problem is too many men trust what women say they want.

hahahmm · Answer

With most women: both. She is with the good guy for the sweet, respectful dinner date & later that night she's on the back of the bad boy's motorcycle on her way to the getting banged.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Nice guys finish last with women in their late thirties. Unapologetic masculine men go after what they want, whatever the cost.

DWornock · Answer

If they have equal looks, the good guy. However, typically the bad boy is very good looking and the good guy is average looking. Therefore, in most cases, since the bad boy is much better looking, girls prefer the bad boy.

atheoigynaika · Answer

I love how all the guys on here think they know what women want

savagehon · Answer

maybe bad guys can look sexy and attractive but stills any girl want to be treated as a queen respected and loved so a good guy would be perfect

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Girls want the good guy. The reason guys think they don't, is because those guys THINK they are nice, when in reality they are not.

JustinTimberlegs · Answer

Creepy stalker nice guy always gets the girl 😔 I'm so sorry for anyone who has to deal with that.

Anonymous · Answer

Bad boys know how to play games so they will probably get the girls but not in long term relationships

Floppy2112 · Answer

Don't believe what women say. Watch how they act. They say they want nice guys, while they always choose the asshole.
There was a lady in my neighborhood ripping this other guy in the neighborhood, calling him all kinds of nasty stuff. A month later they were caught in the closet fucking. Why the closest? I have no idea. Her husband was asleep in bed, until...

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Girls want good guy for society status.. But girls wants bad guy in bedroom when lights switch off. Lol

Pandupillu · Answer

Umm actually both. Just the timings are different. A woman will probably go for the good guy when she wants to get married and realises that the bad guy she is in a relationship will probably not make for a good husband or a father.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

It doesn't look like the girls know themselves very well!!

IcedLemonade · Answer

The bad boy is what makes them wet. The good boy is what makes them feel comfortable

Sarahr123 · Answer

I agree that a guy whi has to say he’s good is not that good

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Not always, but often the bad boy gets the girl when she’s young and adventurous. When she’s ready to settle down she finds the nice good guy.

_Troian_ · Answer

Girls say they want good guys but almost all of them go for bad boys at the end :DRemember ; u can't learn to be a hunter from your hunt.

jshm2 · Answer

Depends what you mean as even bad boys think they are good guys.

Aphrodite801 · Answer

Can you block me so I don’t have to see your trashy questions ever again? Thanks.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I don’t know I wouldn’t say I’m a good guy or a bad guy I’m just myself and I get plenty of female attention so I don’t know why people think about stuff like that

Kevhanma · Answer

Women are perverts and are going to pick the guy she wants to fuck more so Bad Boy everytime until her looks begin to fade and she settle down with the good guy after she’s swam through an ocean of bad boy cum , HIV , herpes and genital warts hmm welp guess I’ll be with this good guy my 3 kids need a father

Anonymous · Answer

No one does...

exitseven · Answer

After a certain age the good guy usually carries the day.

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