Why does me having a crazy side, impulsive getting in legal trouble, assaulting officers. Attract guys?

[Brunettexoxo]

I take full accountability for my mistakes okay, I don’t need any more slack, but I wonder why it attracts guys and makes them intrigued and some of them even want to see that side of me because usually I come across as nice sweet and calm

[kmg9150]

My personal opinion is that if men are attracted to your masculine behavior, their attracted to any masculine behavior. You get what I’m saying. I will say that I strongly believe that most guys who are, may not realize thats whats going on, nor would admit it if they knew……. So its a subliminal way to fight attraction towards other masculine behaviors and reassure its females they are attracted too.


My tried to be a badass with cops, that day my attraction towards her dropped far. It often isn't warranted, puts more legal trouble on you, starts feeling like dealing with a child that keeps getting in trouble at school… but on an adult level. I doubt any one these guys your still with?

[Brunettexoxo]

Yes! They will conversation with me and one is actually a lawyer he said it draws him in for some reason, god knows

[Brunettexoxo]

Well maybe they are bi then like you said

[KostasKouvalis]

They often say crazy girls are the best in bed. Maybe they like bad girls for whatever reason, maybe they find you so attractive they're willing to ignore it, or maybe they're the kind of guy who likes to see through the bullshit, to the good in someone. Or maybe they like the idea of thinking they can change you. Or maybe they are the same. Or maybe for whatever reason they just like the idea of a strong woman either dominating them or protecting them. Or maybe they just like a little bit of excitement and adventure in their lives. Who knows. Could be so many reasons.

Is there a specific type of men that are attracted to you because of this?

[alice55]

Some men just like physically attractive women no matter if they have a good personality or not. It's not so much being a bad girl that attract them but more physical.

And if they're attracted to the bad girl persona then I guess I find it cool and exciting.

[DishLady]

Some guys LOVE the crazy gal bc she seems EASY and like she's willing to do ANYTHING. So... if that's not what you want to be, stay calm and keep your legs crossed. Don't let what they say they want affect your ability to control yourself.

[Brunettexoxo]

I’m sure it’s put some people off it’s probably just they’ve not been honest about it or stuck around for a while and used some different excuse to leave or maybe some think im exaggerating a bit.

[KrakenAttackin]

@DishLady. You nailed it. Guys see "crazy" as "easy".

[HawkPerception]

They see an adventurous and wild girl and that might add some light to their dull lives. I feel that most people want to live wild and free at some point in their lives.

[Staximus]

Stop doing stupid shit. Once you have a record of it, you'll meet a judge one day who's had enough of your bullshit and they will throw your ass in jail long enough to make you think twice about doing stupid shit again.

[Brunettexoxo]

Wow i got in trouble twice throw me in prison for years

[Staximus]

It's time to pull your head out of your ass and act like an adult

[MrGSpotHer]

Oh I'm not giving no slack it's definitely tight no wiggle space but possibly they think your just making it up because you might think it's cool too people so it's like a look at me type thing I did this fear me 😒

[Anonymous]

lol. I know you have a criminal past. But you keep making the same choices Becca. I feel bad for you. Stop doing drugs irs rotting your brain

[DryGermanGuy]

So, it's more than alcohol with her?

[Opinion Owner]

@DryGermanGuy yes

[Brunettexoxo]

@DryGermanGuy I don’t take drugs?

[Opinion Owner]

You look like a coke head and most people who party a lot do drugs

[Brunettexoxo]

I’ve never touched coke in my life I don’t do drugs im kind of scared of them. I do party 2-3 times per month. How do I look like a coke head?

[DryGermanGuy]

Good to hear. Not that I have any opportunity to check it, though. My two cents to your question, you probably attract guys the same way that traffic accidents attract gawkers.

[Brunettexoxo]

Do you know me?

[DryGermanGuy]

No. But have met two or three similar girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you can say you haven’t

[Opinion Owner]

Becca. People don’t have to know you to look at your questions and answers

[genericname85]

did you ever hear of the hot-crazy scale? you're probably hot enough for men to look past your crazy xD that' why.

[DarkLegacy]

The worst attracts the worse. Most real men want a women who conducts herself like one

[Brunettexoxo]

I do conduct myself like one, most of the time

[Brunettexoxo]

Im definitely not the worse

[In_Trance]

It attracts guys that you really should have nothing to do with.

[Brunettexoxo]

What if they have a career and they seem stable, are they probably trying to use me bc they think it’s easier bc crazy people have less boundaries or part of them is like that they just keep it hidden?

[In_Trance]

When a stable guy comes along and he thinks there's a possibility with you he's going to ask a question.
That question is what do you bring to the table?

[andy530]

A touch of crazy brings unpredictability and excitement, it staves off mundane and boredom.

[Brunettexoxo]

That is what I’m trying to say

[andy530]

But for me personally a little goes a long way

[nawtee_me]

But you are nice, sweet and calm…. And a lot of guys like a bad ass chick…. lol

[Brunettexoxo]

It takes 5 bodies to arrest me, my crazy side is animalistic but it’s kept it bay 90% of the time

[nawtee_me]

So it is the 10% that gets you in trouble…. That means we could go out nine times and on the tenth you will have to go with someone else…. lol

[Brunettexoxo]

You take no chances

[Kaizer000]

Because crazy women are sexy. Like... how for example Catwoman is a sex symbol.

[Brunettexoxo]

She was crazy?

[Kaizer000]

Well you mentioned she had a crazy side...🤷

[NathanDavis]

you mean security?

[Brunettexoxo]

Huh?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause the crazy one have some good pussy

[Brunettexoxo]

You could have worded it more respectfully

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sorry just being honest and next time I will

[Anonymous]

Things that didn't happen for 5 million.

[Luckycharms12]

Not really

[Brunettexoxo]

It seems to!!

[Luckycharms12]

Or might they be attracted to you. Impulsiveness can be fun crazy and drama probably comes from drinking to much