Are you cool with being a bar setter in relationships?

[Anonymous]

So I was a placeholder boyfriend so essentially once you think you have better you move on but the reality is knowing me and my characteristics I did and put up with a lot In that relationship that other guys wouldn’t have for example excusing her hitting me 2 weeks in most guys would have immediately been done they also would tolerate her living like a complete slob with her clothes everywhere and food containers and plates everywhere

[DishLady]

You know? Your job in a relationship isn't to reform the other person or to make them grow up. They should want to do that on their own. A healthy relationship is one of partnership, equality and common values...