Are you super territorial over your boyfriend/girlfriend? Are you the type to confront people who check them out?

[Anonymous]

[wolfcat87]

Nah, if they get checked out or approached I'll take it as a compliment.

I'm territorial about how they respond back. 🤣

Like hubby #1 had a woman at work who had a crush on him and told him. He just responded with "oh" basically. Another woman acting as his friend suggested driving across 2 states to stay over and hang out. I told him it seemed as if she wanted him for a relationship. When he stated he didn't think it would be good for his marriage she started taking at him about why would he want to be with me... which proved my point. 😳🤣 Hubby respected me all the way.

Hubby #2 has minimal self control with other women. 😳🤣 So, I'm definitely going to look him dead in the eye if he gives another woman attention and say, "Guess you don't want me then. She can have you." Then, I'm going to walk out of his life if he wants someone else. 🤣🤣🤣 He can chase me down, apologize, and listen to me pout. Then, I'm going to mark my territory. 😘

If anyone actively chases them, they will be mocked and ridiculed for even trying.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm territorial AF but still I have common sense... looking doesn't hurt me or him...

touching... is forbidden... except the group of friends he and I know about... and we both know it's about hugging or cuddling but not sexual things...

most of my friends are men, my both best friends are men... it's given we will meet, hug, spend time together... but I split friendship from romantic/sexual relationship

I don't care about the gender of his friends, I accept he wants meet them without me, I only require transparency... with whom, for how long, where... the last thing I want to experience is to meet him somewhere random with a person I didn't know about...

of course I don't count a handshake as touching... I'm quite reasonable... quite :D

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm territorial to a certain point but not to that extent, my territorial behavior will never be cause I don't trust her tho, it's cause I don't trust the people around her but tbh if I choose the right one I don't ever see myself sing my territorial traits unless it's for certain things for example when eating in public restaurants I'd prefer her to sit next to me facing towards the door and not away although I prefer it she can sit where she wants but Im sitting facing the door, if there's someone that's giving me a weird vibe I'd tell her not to go too far from me and if she will go somewhere where I can't see her, to let me know where before she goes, i think of worse cases, she worries about what we are eating for dinner, I'll worry for preparations in case some maniac runs in with a gun and starts shooting up the place, if I don't have her next to me I'll know exactly where to run to find her, simple.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Using my territorial traits*

[Anonymous]

Checking someone out isn’t necessarily helpable. Plus some people may not even be checking them out. If they’re a first responder or whatever. They just have a habit of looking at people and searching them.

If someone’s making a direct move then that’s another story. As long as you can trust your significant other. Then you know no matter whose checking him/her our. They ain’t gonna cheat

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle a little insight and maybe some cheeky advice into your day! When it comes to being territorial over a partner, think of it as adding just the right amount of seasoning to your favorite dish—too little, and it's bland; too much, and it's overwhelming. It's natural to feel a protective vibe over your significant other because, hey, they're your favorite person! But remember, trust is the sexy little secret ingredient that keeps the relationship delicious. Confronting someone for merely checking out your partner might not be the smoothest move. Instead, let your confidence and the strength of your relationship do the talking. It's like saying, "I know what I've got, and I'm secure in it." Plus, nothing is more attractive than confidence, right? Keep it cool, keep it playful, and remember, a little bit of trust goes a long way in cooking up a happy, healthy relationship. 😉

[Finchie40]

Nope , if I can’t trust her, I wouldn’t be with her period

[HawkPerception]

I'm the opposite of that. I shouldn't have to be territorial over a partner. My partner would be free to talk to whoever she wants and the only time I'll step in is if she gives me a cue or signal to do so, or if it's absolutely apparent that she's being harassed. I trust my partners to handle the attention they get.

She wouldn't be my girlfriend if I have to fight over her. If she gets checked out, that's fine. It just means she's attractive. My type of girl isn't the type to wear tight provocative outfits anyways. I prefer a girl that dresses elegantly in dresses.

[MrOracle]

I am moderately territorial, but my girl doesn't wear overly revealing clothes or anything that would get her the wrong kind of attention, so it's not really an issue.

It's pretty rare that we go anywhere that she's going to get undesired attention, so that also helps.

[BetaBucks]

I am, but I'm not confronting someone over a respectful checkout. I'll confront guys over a disrespectful stare, and I'll make sure my wife/girlfriend doesn't know about it so she doesn't think I'm insecure. If my wife knew I'd punched dudes in the jaw over her, she'd think I'm insecure and also be afraid to be honest with me about weirdos bothering her for real.

[kmg9150]

She wouldn't think at that point, she would know. Dude your 40 and your willing to catch a case because someone stared at the girl thats with you? Tell me, when your locked up, how are you going to be there for her before all the guys sliding up in her DM’s? Consider it, you can't buy back lost time.

[BetaBucks]

I won't get locked up lol. Even the times I've been arrested didn't result in anything. You can get almost anyone to swing first.

And I don't care if I'm 100, if a dude disrespects me to my face, I'm going to stand up for myself. I know exactly what you're saying though bro. I 100% know you're coming from a good place with this.

[exitseven]

I have done this. I do not trust other guys. One time I went to a club with a girl I knew and her friends. We found some seats at a table and I got up and went to the bar to get drinks. When I got back there was some other guy in my seat talking to the girl i came with. I just stood over him and motioned for him to get lost. He immediately left and one of her friends said to me that he liked how I handled that asshole. I think I impressed this girl too.

[DrPepper12]

Quite the opposite. Its HILARIOUS to watch guys check out my wife and or flirt with her. Its a compliment about her desirability and to me for choosing her then i get to go home and fuck her. Win. Win. Win. The bonus is watching her shut that shit down and him walk away like a beaten dog.

[Iron_Man]

I did one time in Asheville, North Carolina when this guy was sitting with a group of people at a restaurant and my girlfriend was ahead of me walking we were at the waffle House late at night. The guy said what’s up baby and I got really mad at him.

[Lliam]

No. I'm not a barbarian. I trusted my partners and I trust my wife. But if they were being harassed or touched, I would definitely step in with any means necessary as a protector. One of my obligations is to keep her safe and secure.

[sawno]

I trust my partners to be loyal to me, i'd only become territorial if he's getting to close with her.

[itsannalee]

No not at all, i am not that insecure.


I feel jealous sometimes, yeah. But not that extreme. I love hearing news from him, but not checking him out.

[dustybiker2]

No. I choose to trust them. They are more than capable of handling themself. Nothing wrong with people find him attractive, I always have.

[Juxtapose]

I trust people when I date them and expect them to ward off potential suitors on their own. If they can't do that on their own then why am I wasting my time with somebody disloyal and easily broken?

[Dinklex3]

Nah. He’s super attractive, so of course women are gunna check him out.

[Account]

Yes. No.

If he entertains that shit, it is on him. I wouldn't get mad at a third person for shooting their shot. I would get mad at him for allowing it and not setting boundaries.

[ZackBan]

Check her out? I don't mind.

But chat her up and try to flirt is not gonna fly.

I trust she won't cheat but I am territorial over her regardless.

[kevinthetech1996]

Not really because in all honesty if jelusly gets too much in a relationship it makes it less secure and the couple may have problems but there are several other factors

[kmg9150]

Nope, love is free to come just as it is to go. If its a homey Id even opt to sharing. We are here for a short while, no sense in reacting to nonsense.

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all. I don't have those kinds of insecurities.

[JustinTheGreat]

A little bit. I won’t confront someone for checking my partner out. But if they’re actively flirting with them while I’m right there, that’s a problem

[WhitneySnow]

No not really. I’m not the super jealous type. I definitely wouldn’t want to share him though.

[serious]

I have always been single so how can I answer this?

[SpeedAnswerDemon]

does it count if its a middle schooler that I threw over a fence

[sirderpsalot123]

Nope. They just aren't allowed to touch her

[handsomelad70]

I wouldn't be unless I were convinced she was up to no good with a guy.

[Likes2drive]

I try not to show it and I won’t approach them unless they become a problem

[Kathy2005]

Little of both I trust my partner if I didn’t we wouldn’t be together. I’d be suspicious of person looking.

[FreyaRed]

No. I don't reduce them to a territory.

[TheLovelyIntrovert]

No, that's going way too far.

[Luckycharms12]

Check them out all they want coming home with me

[Jay-_-]

It only matters how she responds.

[LiamJHayden]

No, but I will dump her if she flirts back.

[Ladsin2]

I can be aggressive. Mine is mine.

[marialovee]

Not really.

[moneymagnet24]

Hi marie

[moneymagnet24]

Maria *

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope