If a guy has been interested in me for years, should I give him a chance?

[Anonymous]

[matheus_mb]

Do it, at least he's been consistent. Just don't lie to him or things will get worse, be honest about why you're giving him a chance

[Asker]

We said that maybe we should grab coffee sometime. I'm a single mother and he offered to pay for a babysitter. should I still accept it?

[matheus_mb]

He clearly showed interest, otherwise he wouldn't have invited you to grab a coffee and offered to pay for a babysitter. If you do wanna give him a try, accept it. Just be honest about your intentions once you're talking.

[Asker]

I know its semantics but did he indeed invite me on a date? He said "maybe" and he didn't set a time and place?

[matheus_mb]

Difficult to say what he thinks that this coffee will be, date or not... I really can't tell. I just know that this is a sign of interest, a man doesn't invite a woman to go out with him unless he's interested in her.

[Asker]

Definitely. I think him paying for a babysitter might be too much, don't you think?

[matheus_mb]

Yep, I do. If he offered though, he's willing. You don't have to accept it. If you wanna go, tell him that you'll pay for the babysitter or leave your kid with someone you trust.

[slatyb]

Are you interested in him? Really? What do you find attractive? If you can't answer that, don't waste his time.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Yeah, as long as you have interest in him, why not?

[Asker]

If me and him had a bad falling out in the past, would it be a bad idea to give him another chance?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

It depends on how bad the falling out is, but I probably would steer clear

[Anonymous]

No. If you weren't interested before what would change now.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

why hasn't he asked you out already

[Blue_Dark]

Yess 😘

[Asker]

Why?

[Blue_Dark]

Because you are a girl with high libido