Will a guy like this ever change for the woman he’s with?

[Anonymous]

My close friend is dating a guy and he’s a walking red flag and she’s blindly falling into his trap. This guy has 7 kids and 7 baby moms. He’s only 27. He still lives with his mom. He can’t keep a job or never gets a real job. He doesn’t care or provide for his kids. He’s almost like a crash out. He also has a history of abusing women. What would you expect getting into a “relationship” with a guy like this?

[Alli112]

Oh boy. Um... look people can change. It's lovely to give people the benefit of the doubt, but you also have to act on reasonable suspicion and I wouldn't trust someone like that too easily myself considering he has a pretty blatant pattern of behavior. Don't even want to know how much that guy must owe in child support. Personally, I just wouldn't even get with a man I know isn't supporting his own children.

[Booklover_90]

Congratulations. Your friend has signed up to be his eighth baby mama. What an honor. 🙄 If she knows what’s good for her, she’ll remove herself from this hot mess before it’s too late.

[strateguy632]

he won't change