Will a man really change for a woman or is this a game?

[Anonymous]

men who have cheated, have you ever made it work with the partner you cheated on.

Meaning reconciled really did the work and stayed loyal, or is it once it’s done it’s done?

[Finchie40]

A girl shouldn’t expect her man to change for her , if she wants him to change for her? then that means she needs to change for him as well. If she is willing to give him another chance and they both discussed why the cheating occurred in the first place and if she was part of the reason that he cheated? then she needs to change as well for him to be able to change for her. Most men that cheat on their partners’ cheat because he isn’t being fulfilled in the relationship, She is probably not matching his sexual drive and constantly making excuses as to why she doesn’t want sex with him , if she isn't denying him sex and he cheats on her anyways , then she will be stupid to give him another chance period because he will cheat again. Some Girls’ don’t realize intimacy and affection is very important to most men , that’s his way of feeling closer to her , if she is constantly pushing him away , she is sadly digging her own grave because he is either going to leave her or cheat on her if that’s the case , this is primary why men cheat in relationships i, I have witnessed couples staying together after cheating occurred because they both realized they were wrong so they and both changed for each other , and they are now happy and in love again with each other. Yes Cheating is a selfish act , but denying your partner intimacy and affection is selfish as well.

[serious]

No, a man once a cheater will always remain a cheater. Yes he make fake the change, may pretend that he has changed but not really change

[SueShe]

The ever recurring question but the reply is always the same.

Once a cheater, always a cheater, regardless of the proof that they give and regardless of the gender.

Once you tasted blood, you always go for it. The same is true for cheaters. Given the right incentive, the right conditions and the right time, they will fall back into that old habit.

The very same applies basically to smokers, drug addicts, gamblers and others that have an addiction. You raise the stakes high enough and you have your incentive to fall back.

Therefore, I do not believe one minute that there is no risk to get back to the old habit. What about in 20 years from now when you are not so pristine anymore and that the guy is looking for a much younger substitute? Do you really think that the risk = 0? Absolutely not. Not today, not tomorrow.

[Abbycado]

There is that saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater".

I wouldn't take my chances that he doesn't do it again.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the million-dollar question! Let me spill some tea from my relationship coaching adventures. People can change, but it's not because someone else wants them to. It's about genuine desire and commitment to change. 🕵️‍♂️ Trust can be rebuilt with effort, honesty, and lots of late-night chats. But if those red flags keep popping up, it might just be game over. Remember, love is a marathon, not a sprint!🏃‍♂️❤️

[Nikki1989]

Most men will always say what they think the woman wants to hear. It is rarely genuine. Take anything they say with a grain of salt.

[In_Trance]

All women think they can change men

They can't

[Asker]

Not that I think I can change him, more so is all the changes he’s making genuine or am I being played

[noohair]

It does not matter. The woman never forgets so whatever the guy does is never good enough.