Guys, Do you like it if a girl makes the first move?

[beautyqueen985]

[V_Injector]

I don't talk to bitches unless they make moves on me. Any stuck-up woman who thinks I should work for getting her panties to drop... done got dropped for all the panties that already drop.

Nobody has time for that shit... go find a girly man that can't even figure out how to get, or keep, a job.

[DrPepper12]

Ummm ok. Im sure the ladies are 2-3 deep when you step out... 🙄

[V_Injector]

@DrPepper12 You are absolutely probably correct good sir... and just another reason why I don't care about most women in general. Yes sir, these women are also filthy sluts.

#1 reason she's probably not talking to me, is because she has a swarm of penises on her already. They can have that prize and I'll high-five the winner later and congratulate him. 🙏😂 🤣

[O_Canada]

Shy no more, huh?
Bold moves can be grand
Courage shows love
Breaking norms, take a stand

Hearts skip, restart
Confidence rise
Sparks fly, both feel free

Pride steps aside
She takes the lead-uh
Equality's sweet decree

Attention command
Mutual chemistry
Breaks stigma
Empowerment's guarantee
Roles fade away
Love blooms naturally

[DrPepper12]

The women in your life must be SO proud! Mom, GrandMA, aunts, nieces, daughters...

[V_Injector]

@DrPepper12 My dealings with women in a platonic relationship setting... why would you think that has anything to do with this subject? The possible threats and manipulations, the benefits I seek to acquire are not the same... what I stand to gain or lose are not the same. What is the point you think you are making? And if you didn't really think about it... then really think about it.

Bro... I feel like you're just trying to do a low-key ad hominem here. Perhaps coming from a blue-pilled white knighting type of mindset.

I suggest instead of taking my rhetoric personally and trying to make it personal... refute my logic instead. Argue against my ideas, and you might change them...

Change hearts and minds my brutha from another mother.

[Lliam]

Sure. I've had quite a few girls hit on me and didn't mind at all. Several of my girlfriends made the first move or moved things along, actually.
I was usually afraid of coming off as pushy or making her uncomfortable. So it helped to get clear, "green light" signals.

For one example, after a first date with one lady, I walked her to her door like a gentleman. The date had gone really well. Before entering her house, she turned, looked up into my eyes, put her hands on top of my shoulders, rose up on her tip toes, and gave me a tender, lingering kiss on the lips. Her body pressed against mine and my hands went to her waist.
That was like a taste of things to come. I knew she was into me and was comfortable with physical touch.
We went on a couple more dates and, without going into more detail, wound up living together for almost two years. I wound up loving that girl and she loved me.

[ohsheeT]

Yes I do.. .. for. So many different reasons but yeah I don't mind

[AviatorTom]

Of course. She can make the first move, and the last move It's much more fun and interesting when we take turns.

[HawkPerception]

Absolutely. I wish it happened more often in life. If a girl makes the first move, I'm going to be more interested in her than if I was to approach her myself. Everyone likes the feeling of being desired and when a girl approaches, it shows that I don't have to question whether she's interested in me or not. It also shows she's not a common girl that waits on guys to make the first move. I like the initiative and confidence.

It doesn't guarantee I'll like her. Physical attraction, the way she talks and moves, her personality and my compatibility with her are still all taken into account.

[Anonymous]

Well…. This depends on the woman. Let’s say it’s a UGLY woman. You wanna be nice.

If she’s a woman I’m interested in absolutely and it shows me she’s genuinely interested in me. A lot of girls limit their options because they’re scared of rejection. Does it suck? Yes. But at least you have closure and aren’t wasting time on someone who isn’t into you.

At the same time if all you do is wait on those who approach you. Sometimes the kind of people approaching aren’t who you want. Yes rejecting people isn’t fun either (unless someone is a narcissist, sociopath, dark empathy, etc. they love that shit).

[tfan1]

It’s never happened to me but when I met my girlfriend - now my wife - I was nervous about asking her for her email address since I knew phone number might be pushing it. She was wiping the counter down and flashed a beautiful smile at me and all fear and nervousness disappeared and I asked her for her email or instant messenger and she gave it to me. I was so happy 👍🙂

[RavVid]

I think women have been making the first move for millenium but just not overtly, bang between the eyes. Instead by being receptive and giving an opening you could drive a Mack truck through.

One girl complained to me she wanted to see the current boy block buster but none of her girl friends would see it with her. It was clear that

1. She was single

2. Needed a man to at least see moves with

3. Had selected me as suitable

[OfMiceandMen]

I think it's a nice change from the stereotypical scenario where the guy always has to make the first move. I mean we supposedly in the age of equality, so why shouldn't the girl roll the dice for a change.

[ohmyguy]

Yes.. then its a sealed deal... does not happen as often as it should


Realisticly woman have the same drive we a guys do.. there's no need be coy about.

It is a bit trouble some when we get the feeling that we are seen as pervs asking woman out for a date

[Pete671]

Yes I do, it can be annoying though when they eg ask about coffee shops in the area, hinting that they might like a coffee with me but expect me to ask them, ie pay for it,,,

[bobby_bush_eater]

I do.

It's simultaneously something that I'm wary of because it's not common so depending on the context I might have some slight preconceived notions of the girl.

Ultimately I expect to make the first move but if the reverse happens it's a welcome surprise even if it leads nowhere.

[_Troian_]

Depends on what you do as first step.. if you stare and smile, it means giving me a signal and I like that.. ye that's necessary. However if we talking about you directly coming up to me and trying to communicate or be flirtive.. eh I don't like that.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Yep I love it, but to be fair I also love it when I make the first move too.. I guess then as long as the move is made, I don't really care WHO makes it lol

[exitseven]

I was painfully shy when I was a kid. I appreciated it when a girl would give me a little nudge.

[tzdc21]

YES!!! It relieves a lot do pressure off of our shoulders that she is outright saying she wants us. Doesn't guarantee a yes, but still it will be deeply respected and appreciated because it never happens.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

It's nice, but remember, just like girls don't, guys don't have to settle. As in, be prepared for rejection, if he's not feeling you. Noone should HAVE to settle

[DrPepper12]

Hell. To. The. Yes!

Bold, confident, aggressive women get my attention EVERY DAMN TIME!!

[genericname85]

i mean if i'm not attracted to her, it doesn't matter. i don't mind it but i won't suddenly be attracte because she made the first move. if she's attractive it's cool.

[ticktds]

Personally, I would have preferred to do that, but it is attractive, and I'll probably respond well.

[slatyb]

Of course. We also like it if our partners initiate sexual activity.

[RyanK9b]

Oh yes. It may surprise but its a refreshing new element

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Translator

yea but in my experience, every time a girl approached me/texted me first, it was either a scam or she was begging for money

[Fireguy17]

yeppers.
At least then I know that they are somewhat interested in me.

[Alex-Snow]

Of course it has happened to me and I loved it and we had fun!

[FarmBoy13]

I don’t mind one bit. If we’re going to end “gender rolls” in relationships it should start at the beginning

[Likes2drive]

Would love it, wouldn’t have to guess anymore

[Staximus]

Yes, it's a lot better than all the vague and mysterious wishy washy bullshit

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah, shows she really likes me, the second this happens I unleash and take over

[Anonymous]

whg do I get the feeling this will never be normalized

[LiamJHayden]

On the rare occasions that it has happened I have been pleasantly surprised.

[Nifrayu]

Of course. I'm not gonna make the first move.