What is the most important factor for you in deciding if someone is physically attractive or not?

[Anonymous]

Hair

Eyes

Weight and Height combo

Facial structure/symmetry

Clothing style

Another answer

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I think it's a combination. Obviously weight, height and how they dress tells a lot about the type of person they are.

Eyes are important to me, though. There are some guys who are probably attractive to many that I don't think are attractive at all. Some people crushed on Channing Tatum (especially when younger), for example, but I have never thought he was attractive because of his eyes. Plus he always has this smirk on his face, which would automatically make me want to ignore him. He has a "hey, baby" look. No thanks.

Not really into baby faces, either.

[hahahmm]

Guys do not really control what they find most important/attractive physically. It's a subconscious thing. And how it works is still mysterious in some ways. For example a guy could think he finds "big boobs" most attractive. But he could see a woman who has big spectacular boobs but due to some other issue (s) he's repulsed by her and the boobs don't matter at all anymore.

That said, guys DO have standards/limits/boundaries on who they will get with. Some conscious rules we put down on top of the biological stuff. So just because a woman is "fine as hell" doesn't mean it matters if we have the self-control/wisdom to not be led by basic animal desires. For example, just because your dad's new girlfriend is "fine as hell" doesn't mean you have to try and get her. Just one example.

[Skinhead-1979]

It's the whole 'package'; I don't focus on individual aspects of a female's body.

Just looking at my ex... she's 5''3, weighs 197lbs... even for me that's a bit too big (I do love 'bigger', curvy women)... but she has a pretty face and eyes. Her dressing style was boring, leggings and a top; nothing too fancy. Her hair wasn't in a particularly good state, it was thinning due to hair falling out, but she has long hair which is a 'must' for me (sure, there are many pretty short haired women too... but I simply prefer long hair; I love to brush my partner's long hair).

Just a pretty, average woman... but I loved her.

[DishLady]

I'll take in the entire person first, but focus on the posture, face and hands to determine a few general basics about the guy's character. From there, I wait to see what he sounds like and what he says, which are what really make him attractive or unattractive to me.

[AviatorTom]

It's a combination of many things, but to pick just one... eyes... the gateway to a woman's soul

[Damaged00]

I have a thing for guys hands and arms. But the main things are his eyes and his personality. If he has a great personality then that can make him even more attractive. But in all honesty, I don't believe it comes down to certain factors for us to be attracted to someone. We can't really control it.

[Razp_Sorbet]

I don't think finding someone physically attractive has a deciding factor... You just either do or don't. Or maybe it's just something I don't think about. I think for me if I'm just attracted to them as a person then everything about them becomes attractive.

[JustTryingToLife]

I guess a combination but honestly personality. Men have become more attractive to me based on how they treat other people. A kind heart and good personality is probably the most attractive quality.

[Lliam]

1. The whole face - facial shape, eyes, lips and mouth, teeth, nose, eyebrows, chin, cheeks.
2. Figure - short is an added bonus.
3. Hair.
4. Skin.
5. Grooming and style - choice of nails, makeup and clothing.

[DizzyDesii]

Face first. (I’m picky about nose, teeth, lip size, and eye shape)… and then the overall physique (Does it look proportionate or do do they have hips like a woman)… as well as posture/stature (Do they have a humpback or scoliosis)

[dustybiker2]

Didn't they do a thing with Denzel Washington and a group of babies. They did a flashing of pictures and all the babies lit up when they saw Denzel Washington. They narrowed it down to bone structure in the face.

[Anonymous]

The most important factor for me in deciding if someone is physically attractive or not is whether I'm physically attracted to her. It's not like I have a check list of things like what you listed in your poll. Being attracted to someone is not a conscious choice based on a list of criteria. It's a feeling.

[HawkPerception]

Honestly I think the first thing I notice is the way they dress. Then if they're overweight or not. After that is facial and body structure. Then hair, then eyes.

[just_a_potato]

Height and weight ratio passively affects it, but it's all about the face to me. An attractive face makes the entire person physically attractive to me.

[Nikki1989]

If that is what it comes down to, he is not worth being with anyway.

[RingOfFire]

I always answer this question by saying I can't pick one factor. It's the whole package that makes her attractive or unattractive to me. There's no one feature.

[alice55]

I would say nose and eyes. But others features also matter but usually it's mainly those two

[Chevy1_kb]

Eyes and smile teeth facial features to many things hair colour to

[Anonymous]

Her personality. The right personality can make me fund her physically attractive. I've had too many experiences where that became true to even bother trying to deny it.

[andreasderjuengere]

Weight, weight, and weight.

(In this order)

But the selection process then isn't over yet.

[Tim2nice]

I don’t decide what’s attractive. My brain does.

[Sharkstealth]

I am an ectomorph and I notice that I am more likely to approach or watch other ectomorphs.

[andreasderjuengere]

What a cool word that is :D
How to approach such a person, I wonder...
"Hello Ecto. Would you like to morph with me?''

[Sharkstealth]

It's a body type. Lanky and small chested. Look it up. There are 3 main types.

[andreasderjuengere]

I HAD looked it up. And found it useless in daily conversations :)

[paledreams]

I'd rather just say looks - so I voted other answer :) - I'm shallow, yes 👀👀👀👀

[paledreams]

I'm always cheerful that I'm honest about that I am, a shallow man. Ah well, yet I don't even seem to score with shallow ladies, ah well - birds of a feather - don't have to flock together. I enjoy my single lifestyle 😜😊

[Skyros]

All factors are equally required. I can’t put my finger on just one. I do like a woman who is strong, fierce, and simply a badass when needed. Those qualities make a woman hot as hell in my opinion.

[Skyros]

Athletic, firm body preferred.

[bobby_bush_eater]

It's 3 things, weight, height and face. Everything wise is after

[the29thhuman]

Race, coping skills, house manners, frugal, loves himself, crafty, body language.

[LiamJHayden]

The only physical thing that turns me away from a lady is morbid obesity.

[Kingofkings1992]

I just find her attractive or I don’t lol. I wouldn’t say there’s one specific variable that makes the entire difference.

[avery58]

Face, eyes, smile

[Anonymous]

My answer was going to be face and legs. But all the given possible options are valid factors

[Caroline91]

Real confidence

[4ngelic]

the face & weight

[IslaTheWitch]

his mind...

[Lady_Heart]

I actually don't know

[Nerdvana]

She is kind to people

[Dongie]

Another.
The way they look.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Teeth nose feet and hair

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Handsome Symmetrical face with clear skin.

[CubaPirate]

A combination of all of those

[Anonymous]

Her personality.

[PeachyPie93]

A good face!

[normalice]

Shape of butt

[Apple1996]

Hair

[Brady]

their face