I am jobless and I feel like I am lost. I tried to convince some girls to date me. They liked me but were not ready to date. I don't know what to do?

[Anonymous]

My parents, friends, relatives told me to find a girlfriend who supports you mentally and financially. So I found some nice girls who were employed. I showed my profile, I told them I will upskill if I have to and I will find a job. I tried to convince them to help me mentally and financially. I don't want more money. I don't smoke, drink alcohol, do drugs and I am vegetarian. I just want a home to live, food to eat, some money to enroll for course. Most girls were nice to me but they weren't not ready to date me. I feel like I am lost.

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I am a B. Sc. MBA grad, I was a working as a senior software engineer. I wanted to start a family soon. Unfortunately, I got laid off from the company last year. I have good family background. I own 2 homes and a car. I have inherited some property. I have saved some money for the wedding. I have already bought a wedding ring with my salary. I am prepared to get married but I am feeling lost bcoz it's hard to get another job. My family and friends adviced me to get married bcoz we are not poor.

[exitseven]

Okay- I really do not know how you ended up this way but you need to do something now to improve your chances of getting employed.

enroll in a training program. Community college is a good place to start. Healthcare, IT, Business and Accounting are all good fields to go into. There are many programs since Covid where you can go for cheap or no money.

Show that you have motivation and are not all talk.

[Asker]

Sir, I got laid off from the job. I am looking for another job

[exitseven]

Okay, fron what I can see you are not a loser. I had a 30 year career in IT and I had been laid off several times. I always found another job and so will you..
I never really tied my self worth to a job anyway. You sound like somebody who has a lot of drive for success. You are not lost. Just keep looking for work, do some work on your properties, go on a few adventures

[elizamichale1]

Seriously? I can't believe u actually had balls to ask tht question let alone believing tht someone would find u charming with that attitude...

N i m equally shocked at the people suggesting u to find a girlfriend to look for support instead of looking for a job...

I wish all the haters who hate me for my work could see your question... i would love to see their comments n then ask them wht do they say about me now...

Grow up honey... no one is going to accept u as a boyfriend in tht state... think... if ur own parents r not supporting u why the hell an unknown girl should huhh

[Asker]

I got laid off from the job. I am looking for another job.

[elizamichale1]

Thts wht u r supposed to do... not the girl to lean on

[Asker]

I'm don't want to lean. I want to start a family.

[elizamichale1]

Starting a family requires u to be responsible n CAPABLE

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho

[DishLady]

How can you be feeling lost and expect to be datable? There's a really poignant passage in Hindu scripture that this question is asked... how can you gamble something that was once yours after you had already lost yourself?

When dating, it's important to KNOW YOURSELF so that you have the ability and confidence to meet and date women who are suitable for you.

[Asker]

I got laid off from the job. I am looking for another job.

[DishLady]

Yeah, I got that part. But "feeling lost" isn't something that allows you to be dating correctly -- and frankly, nor is unemployment. Find yourself, get your life back on track, and then try dating again.

[EmmaMary]

Let's be completely open and honest here, other than being a pathetic parasite, you've not exactly got anything to offer in return.

So for fuck's sake Grow Up and start acting your age... That's even if your age is correct.

[Asker]

I am not a parasite. I got laid off from the job. I am looking for another job.

[Asker]

Unemployed girls are parasites too.

[Anonymous]

You can't convince anyone to date you.

[Asker]

I got laid off from the job. I am looking for another job.

[noohair]

First, find work. next, have some self respect.

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?

[war_daddy]

girls don't want a loser. get a fucking job

[Asker]

I got laid off from the job. I am looking for another job