I'm 29 and always struggled to get a date because I'm so average looking what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[ZackBan]

Yeah sorry but this is not normal.
If you're truly average looking then the reason you're not getting dates is because you want dates from above average guys who are of course interested in above average women.

Now if there is a way for you to become above average then by all means go for it. But realistically it's easier said than done.

What can truly make a difference is lowering your own standards. Giving a chance to the guy who isn't 6ft tall or has 6 packs or makes 6 figures, might see you finally find a worthy partner.
That's not to say go out with someone you're not attracted to of course but instead stop glossing over so many options that could turn out great as you wait for brad pitt to come take you alway in a private jet.

[Asker]

Really even a needy average guy turned me down. Even the mingers are getting hot girls

[ZackBan]

Then there clearly is a distinct problem with you that has nothing to do with looks.
I don't know you so it's hard to say, but you need to examine yourself and try to see what it is that's driving guys away

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Go to the mall and watch the couples stroll by. MOST of them are average looking.

2. It is very likely that you are using your appearance as an excuse for some other insecurity that you are masking and not wanting to confront. Do relationships scare you?

[charlean]

try looking into more interesting hair styles, like layered or braided if u don’t alrdy have. attempt a wardrobe revamp to outfits that flatter you better. investing in some subtle makeup does wonders as well

[Rabbagail]

No such thing as "average looking" just be yourself and be patient. It will pay out when a guy comes trust me.

[Berethor]

No much that you can do about that, be thankful that you not below average. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenAreStrongWomenArePretty

[Anonymous]

Average looking is subjective, if you dress well then anyone can look fantastic. How do you dress? You just need to be classy, no t-shirst/jeans/zip up hoodies! For example, do you own a cowl neck sweater dress, belted, with some leather pants/leggings and some ankle boots? Something like that will elevate your look!

[slatyb]

Get to know some men instead of waiting for a guy to pick you for your appearance. Try outdoor activity groups: hiking, biking, sailing, canoeing, asking, etc. Lots of nice single guys. Also Habitat for Humanity and similar charitable activities.

[Gandydancer]

Wear it proudly. . looks. are only skin deep. Smile at a guy more often when he peaks your interest.. Women who stand out. Way Above The Crowd are usually not blessed with both. . I've dated all kinds. Beauty queens. Are usually just that. . all by itself. . nothing else. To go with it. Id ask you out if i saw you

[ChrisMaster69]

Talk to average looking others.

it’s a case of being out there, there are soo many average looking people.

get out n socialise.

[Asker]

Even avergae looking guys are getting good looking girls around here

[LZPanzer]

What are you targeting. I find a lot of women have poor targeting and eliminate viable options too soon or out of hand.

[jobego]

what is average to one person is seen as amazing to others. i'm sure you might have just not run into the people who think you're beautiful

[jahaims]

Average looking girls make up a majority of the population that is why it's called average. Average girls get dates all the time. That is just an excuse.

[TheFlak38]

think about the thousands of guys you friend zoned for the sake of your astronomical standards.

[DWornock]

Lower your standards because they are unrealistic. Or else, forget about dating.

[Waldoe]

dress more provacively, hang out in singles clubs, bars, dances... call me

[Inthecraphole]

Have you ever had a boyfriend or a first love before?

[Asker]

Yeah but the timings were wrong or they lived quite far away

[Inthecraphole]

Oh I am seeking a woman without a romantic past. I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend.

[Oh-canada]

Me more then average. But I highly doubt that is your issue.

[Jamie05rhs]

Maybe do something different with your hair?

[Asker]

Yeah maybe I should curl it

[rabbitzzz]

Are you controlling and jealous

[Seangreen]

If that's the case I would gladly go out with you

[StickStickity13]

date average looking men

[BrokenAngelxXx]

Just be yourself and don't get laid down.

[Anonymous]

How long was your longest relationship