I have a problem rejecting guys who have everything I want. How do you know when it's too good to be true?

[Anonymous]

I've rejected a good amount of good looking, funny, well off, guys looking to pursue me. I reject them because I assume they have too many options and are playing me. Once they get into relationships I get to see they really were all that they seemed to be. Then I feel jealous and upset I could have gotten to know him. Once or twice I've found out they were players but the amount of times I’ve seen I just got lucky with a 10 and threw out my shot is enough to make me crazy. How do you know when it's too good to be true?

[Anonymous]

Don’t wait too long, before you know it those men won’t come knocking at your door as often.

[Asker]

That's where I'm at now. I'm patiently awaiting the next one but I'm terrified I won't get another. I used to have 2-3 after me a week now its more like once a month. I just didn't realize you could be handsome and honest.

[Opinion Owner]

Why is that hard to believe? That men can be handsome and honest? That’s like me saying all women are after money.

[Asker]

Most attractive men have options. I’ve never been good at competing, much less for a person especially when there are tons of gorgeous women in the world.

[Opinion Owner]

To me I think if you’re just naturally feminine the men will find you. It has to be something that you are 24/7. Not just when a man is around. There are women who pretend to be like that, they may get a shot w the man but eventually he will find out she’s fake. She’s not really feminine. I think all the good women who aren’t meant to be wives will be picked up. Those that aren’t, won’t.